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	<title>Comments on: Abiola Abrams: “Picky” and Proud</title>
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		<title>By: ebwriter</title>
		<link>http://www.clutchmagonline.com/2009/06/abiola-abrams-%e2%80%9cpicky%e2%80%9d-and-proud/comment-page-3/#comment-25302</link>
		<dc:creator>ebwriter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:30:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I watched this show and loved it! Also, I loved Abiola&#039;s spirit. So sweet, caring and genuine.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I watched this show and loved it! Also, I loved Abiola&#8217;s spirit. So sweet, caring and genuine.</p>
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		<title>By: lolo</title>
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		<dc:creator>lolo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 02:58:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abiola was such a humble character on the show.  Sometimes I felt like I saw myself in her.  If one first sees me, you&#039;d think I&#039;m the cheesiest(and I mean in this in a cute way Abiola! lol), happiest girl alive!  But deep down sometimes I have my days when I wonder if I&#039;ll ever find someone compatible or better yet, if I&#039;ll find a strong, intelligent, and conscious black man to like me for who I am. Sometimes the bug of insecurity flies in and you think that you&#039;re too big, you&#039;re too this, you&#039;re too that.  Obviously, it&#039;s something I have to work on and I definitely saw Abiola do that, she&#039;s such a beautiful woman with grace, ambition and humility and I wish her the best in finding love!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Abiola was such a humble character on the show.  Sometimes I felt like I saw myself in her.  If one first sees me, you&#8217;d think I&#8217;m the cheesiest(and I mean in this in a cute way Abiola! lol), happiest girl alive!  But deep down sometimes I have my days when I wonder if I&#8217;ll ever find someone compatible or better yet, if I&#8217;ll find a strong, intelligent, and conscious black man to like me for who I am. Sometimes the bug of insecurity flies in and you think that you&#8217;re too big, you&#8217;re too this, you&#8217;re too that.  Obviously, it&#8217;s something I have to work on and I definitely saw Abiola do that, she&#8217;s such a beautiful woman with grace, ambition and humility and I wish her the best in finding love!</p>
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		<title>By: Brittany Goldberg</title>
		<link>http://www.clutchmagonline.com/2009/06/abiola-abrams-%e2%80%9cpicky%e2%80%9d-and-proud/comment-page-2/#comment-25242</link>
		<dc:creator>Brittany Goldberg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 00:41:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for publishing this article. Abiola Abrams was my favorite castmate as Miss Picky on VH1&#039;s Tough Love. I was angry that she didn&#039;t get more screen time but I hope that VH1 gives Abiola more screen time in the future. When I read about all of her on-going struggles to get fit as a celebrity, I am like, join the club! I was following her career from BET J and her online blackplanet show and I always loved her funny over the topness. Glad to see her shining. Thanks Clutch. I never read herbook but my Best Friend likes it so I&#039;ll check it out.

It&#039;s taboo in our community to talk about it. We say we want to see positive black women and then when we do we don&#039;t support them and even though I am biracial and as white girl looking as they come, I appreciated seeing a chocolate beauty on my tv tube. This just became my favorite website. Sistersk let&#039;s support each other.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for publishing this article. Abiola Abrams was my favorite castmate as Miss Picky on VH1&#8242;s Tough Love. I was angry that she didn&#8217;t get more screen time but I hope that VH1 gives Abiola more screen time in the future. When I read about all of her on-going struggles to get fit as a celebrity, I am like, join the club! I was following her career from BET J and her online blackplanet show and I always loved her funny over the topness. Glad to see her shining. Thanks Clutch. I never read herbook but my Best Friend likes it so I&#8217;ll check it out.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s taboo in our community to talk about it. We say we want to see positive black women and then when we do we don&#8217;t support them and even though I am biracial and as white girl looking as they come, I appreciated seeing a chocolate beauty on my tv tube. This just became my favorite website. Sistersk let&#8217;s support each other.</p>
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		<title>By: Ann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 23:30:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I loved this! Abiola&#039;s spirit and enthusiasm really shows.  Great article!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved this! Abiola&#8217;s spirit and enthusiasm really shows.  Great article!</p>
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		<title>By: Z</title>
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		<dc:creator>Z</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 20:09:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I enjoyed reading this.  She is more relatable in this article than how she was portrayed on the show.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I enjoyed reading this.  She is more relatable in this article than how she was portrayed on the show.</p>
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		<title>By: Ananda Leeke</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ananda Leeke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 18:46:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great article on Abiola. Love her spirit!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article on Abiola. Love her spirit!</p>
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		<title>By: ceecee</title>
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		<dc:creator>ceecee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Jun 2009 13:39:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have to look out for this show.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to look out for this show.</p>
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