Are White Men More Appreciative of Natural Hair?
Let’s revisit a situation experienced by a fellow natural. She’s in a classroom packing up her books when she notices her white, male teacher looking at her. His look is not just a passing glance, but a stare. Although feeling annoyed, she ignores his staring and keeps packing. The teacher continues to stare. All of a sudden, her teacher gets up and walks up to her. “Your hair looks nice. What is that — natural?” he asks smiling up at her hair. She answers yes. “Great, that’s what I like to see,” he adds.
That experience was an eye opener for her – a white man staring at her all because of her hair. “He definitely made my day!” she said. Later, our fellow natural finds out that her teacher is married to a women of African descent and that her hair is also natural. She feels that it is therefore safe to assume that, “As a Caucasian male, he loves Black people, especially those with natural hair.” You can hear the ‘live’ version of this experience, and see the actual hairstyle she was wearing in ItalEmpress199 aka Kimberley Kerr’s YouTube Video, “White Men Like Natural Hair!”
Since going natural have you noticed that you get more compliments from white men, or white people in general? Do you find that for some reason they seem more accepting? Yardley Messeroux, creator of The Coil Review says,
“I feel like white men have been fascinated with black beauty for decades. Not all, but many. It has a lot to do with their view of black beauty. Overall, they see it to be different – unique – exotic, especially our natural hair. ”
Something much different from what they know and what they’ve grown up around in their households. They’re interested in learning more about it. And guess what? I don’t blame them. We’re pretty fly.” The Coil Review has a series called “Memoirs of a White Man” by Alex Barnett. It is the tale of a white man and how his fascination with natural hair (the afro) aided in his girlfriend’s transition.
“For her, it was perhaps the scariest thing she had done in her life, because this woman had straightened her hair for more than 25 years, since the age of 10. As for me, well, the hardest part was just learning the basics. As the White boyfriend of a Black woman, there was a lot I needed to learn –and quick– if I was going to help her navigate this journey. And, as she so often reminded me, I better learn, because it was my dumb ass who suggested this in the first place. Oops!” he writes.
To read more check out Part I , Part II , and the Conclusion. The Coil Review also plans to publish more of this series.
I also came across more on this subject on Siditty.blogspot.com. In one of her posts, entitled “Natural Hair and IR Relationships”, Siditty, who is natural and married to a white man writes, “One thing I did notice was with white people they didn’t seem to be repulsed by my hair, they thought it was odd, but they didn’t ask me when I was going to go get it “done”.
My husband actually likes it because I spend less time in the bathroom and I am less inclined to fear rain or humidity. That, and he can actually touch my hair without fear of drawing back a nub. I think guys overall still prefer the straight look, but white guys who are open to dating black women seem to be more open to the concept of “natural hair”.”
Check out her above post and others: www.siditty.blogspot.com/2008/04/natural-hair-and-ir-relationships.html, www.siditty.blogspot.com/2008/01/black-hair-and-ir-relationships.html for a more insightful commentary on naturals and interracial dating.
Another one of my favorite blogs is On The Road to Queendom by Writing Addict. She has a head full of lovely locs and has also written on the topic. Her post is entitled “Do Men of Other Races Like Natural Black Women?”
In her post she states, “The men of other races told me that I was beautiful just like I was, that they loved my hair. That all of me was beautiful, not just some but all…” She goes on to add, “I don’t know how you feel about dating outside of your race, and I respect everyone’s decision. But let me say this, if you are open to love from different races, but think those other races don’t like you because you have tightly coiled or loc’d hair, well you need to think again.
Maybe slow down a bit when walking past … lift up that head and stop staring at the ground when you walk. Remember honey, you are a Queen and Queens are proud, they walk with eloquence and pride. You may just be surprised at “who” is checking you out! I know I was.” She also posted an excerpt from another site created by a white man called Black is Beautiful giving his take on ‘sexy’ roots, be sure to check it out on her blog.
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You see here folks, “Joe” is a classic example of why blogs like this are and need to be in existence. If that thing even is a black man (which I have my doubts) then it just proved the point of the article.
Let me ask you all this: Why would anyone, in their right mind, not only come to a blog that has nothing to do with them but comment negatively on it? Simple: spite. There are people all over that hate seeing strong, liberated, freethinking women doing their thing and they attempt to tear us down. Now, if what “Joe” said wasn’t out of complete bitterness and catty spite toward black women (particularly ones on this blog with natural hair) “he” would have gone on an interracial blog or a “pro-non-kinky hair” site. But it’s obvious that “Joe” just came here to vent “his” frustration that “his” own race of women (if it’s even what it says it is) can and always point out black men’s evident shortcomings, and that even in our eyes they are on average not good enough for us. “He” feels “he’s” being attacked, so “he” feels the need to attack back. This kind of individual is someone we should be grateful doesn’t want to associate with us.
My mom always told me that natural hair is like a loser repellant. Truer words were never spoken, especially in the case of “Joe” lol.
“My mom always told me that natural hair is like a loser repellant. Truer words were never spoken, especially in the case of “Joe” lol.”
ABSOLUTELY!!! You instantly get rid of them, regardless of race. It’s funny how the biggest love and support I have had about my natural hair was from non-blacks (asian and white). The vast majority of BW I know with natural hair are dating non-black men. I’m not saying some black men don’t love natural hair, but that’s a minority, period. The vast majority of BM who saw my locs were giving me the “WTF” look, meanwhile, other communities for the most part were cool with it, unbelievable! I saw a couple on YOUTUBE, when the BW announced to her husband and kids that she was starting a NATURAL JOURNEY the guy was screaming and jumping for joy, he actually **preferred** natural hair but had decided to respect her decision to relax her hair.
Black people could end racism towards us very quickly if we just start to: Love, Accpet and Embrace our unique hair texture and skin shade.
Many still worry about young black girls obsession with white dolls, while failing to realize that more than 90% of adult black women are not choosing their own looks either. We voluntarily infuse our sensitive brain cells with harsh and toxic hair chemicals daily, and we simply don’t care, and dont’t want to care.
When Sampson cut off his locks he became weak and powerless, and the more that black women refuse to wear their natural hair “Dead or Alive” the weaker our minds become. Yet, the amount of monetary and academic assets that black people now own (especially in the U.S.) fool us that we’ve arrived, and are equal to all everyone else. Even though, at no time before, now or ever could even the stupidest of us be inferior to the most intellecutal of any other, since all others came from us, and without us, no other shall long remain.
Still I know that many don’t want to hear that, before black Negroes with nappy hair there were no other humans, and after us, no one shall remain.
Negroes with nappy hair are the only humans who can multiply and replace all other groups of humanity, -WHEN another catastrophe wipe-out the majority of mankind.
There is now scientific evidence that 75, 000 years ago a mega volcano erupted and put the world into an ice-age that lasted for centuries. Every group of mankind was wiped out (including those with lighter shades, who should’ve been able to withstand cold more than Negroes). And it is from those few Negroes that everyone on earth today sprung.
Plus, Dark Matter, Dark Energy and Dark Holes, are now realized to be the most predominant and critical stuff in the Universe. Yet they silently stay in the background, never raining on the parade of all the brighter stuff like Stars. Everything in the Universe (including the sun) has a finite age. The only thing that will last forever, and regenerate everything else, are blackness and darkness. Blackness and darkness have the potential to create every star, planet and other heavenly bodies. Just as Negroes only have the ability to create every other skin shade and hair type. Yet can never be duplicated by anyone else.
The motion of Cosmic bodies go around in a spiral like our spirally, kinky or nappy hair. The pattern of every human DNA spirals like our so-called nappy hair. Our hair is extraordinarily unique for significant cosmological reasons. We are the owners of precious commodities, which we’ve for too long refused to appreciate. Therefore many of us must now join others, wondering if the world is coming to an end. Since deep down inside of us, we must have some awareness that our blatant disregard of our precious hair is stating to the Universe, that we no longer want to be the repositors and maintainers of everyone else.
If Negro hair assumes the shape of the most important movements and patterns in mankind and the Cosmos, where did we get it that our hair is ugly and to be condemned? How is it intelligent for the prototype of humanity to imitate their by products? How many more of us must die trying (like our bloved brother Michael Jackson), to un-negro our most negroid looks?
By refusing to give up her seat on a bus, Rosa Park started a movement that forced whites to change at least one of their most racist policy. Money has always counted, and when they realized how much bus companies were loosing from black fares, they had no choice but to change. If black women should commit to proudly wear their natural hair for just one month, then the Koreans, Arabs and all others who know that they will get our monies no matter how much they insult us, would quickly change their tune.
However right now they know that we care more about imitating others, than honoring our individual and group image, so they have no reason to change. They know that no matter how much we complain, we currently do not love ourselves enough to embrace our natural looks. The world knows that every group has got us by every strand of our unique and precious follicle.
And the one thing they can count on for sure, is that they’ll weaken our minds forever, so that we don’t care about the massive amount of wealth
we so quickly turn over to denude, deminish and disgrace ourselves. While our young black men get re-enslaved in jails for frivilous reasons, because black communities do not have enough money to pay enough good lawyers to change the racist laws that blatantly re-enslaves them at the most critical stage of their lives. And black women are all happily complaining about racism against us, with their super expensive hair-dos.
My current girlfriend is the only black woman I’ve ever known who lets me put my hands in her hair. Granted, she doesn’t like me to see it after she’s washed it and hasn’t “done it” yet but I love the tactile sensation of it! It’s not like anything I’ve ever known and can’t get enough. She is not comfortable with it but I love the way it feels BEFORE she “does it”.
I’m sure I’m not the only man of any color who appreciates such things.
I have naturally curly hair and my bf is blk/white and he doesn’t really like it when I wear my hair picked out or blown out. He prefers me to wear my hair straight or curly. It kind of annoys me but I don’t blow out my hair for him, I do it b/c sometimes I want really big diva hair. I get different reactions depending on the state of my natural hair:
1. FULL BLOWN FRO: I get more compliments from older people every race 40+ not that young people don’t compliment me but I just get it more from older people. I get described as unique and different. :)
2. NATURAL CURLY WASH N GO: young BW and mixed guys love it/ this is when I get the most “pretty hair” compliments and “what are you mixed with?”.
3. STRAIGHT: young BM tell me how beautiful I am when my hair is in this state
4. DOUBLE STAND TWIST: mostly BW of all ages and WM of all ages think it looks cool. I had a white guy w/ dreds tell me I need to let them lock. lol
I think younger BM are brainwashed 2 believe that
Afros= nappy and bad lol and
straight hair= good and pretty.
I don’t get angry w/ their ignorance.. how could I? MVideos, models and movie stars mostly have processed hair….
I personally don’t think whites appreciate natural hair more, I feel whites like it b/c its different and unique. So they become excited when they see it. My sister’s husband is white and he prefers her hair natural. He hates when she straightens it. So really it just depends….
1 more thing I really hate when people (every race except my bf) touch my hair w/o permission, I feel like a zoo exhibit. (It has happens all of time!!!!)
about touching natural hair, I’m not sure if it’s the novelty, curiosity about the texture, or that it stands out like an entirely new brand of femininity but it is difficult to repress the urge to touch natural women’s hair. I restrained myself once when a girl in my college class had this expression like ‘i know that look and don’t you dare’ lol.
so don’t get too peeved, it’s an innocent curiosity. it’s new and the women that wear it look so confident, which is totally different than the energy most women emanate.
I’m a bw that has her hair permed. I’m married to a bm that claimed he supported me going natural but when I did he stopped touching my hair or complimenting me on it, so I went back to perms. I guess he wasn’t being honest with himself. Despite that, I’m considering going natural again.
About that:
When I went natural, my hair grew very fast and without all the chemicals it was very soft and fairly glimmering with health. I would regularly get admiring looks and compliments on it from wm and young bw. When I let people touch it they were surprised natural hair is so soft and puffy. I think before they touch it people see it defying gravity lol and holding its shape and they assume it’s stiff and rough.
Oddly, while young bw expressed admiration for my hair they seemed to believe their natural hair would never look like mine, they asked if I was mixed and they insisted that if they went natural it would just be extremely short and a ‘hot mess’. They didn’t seem to realize that black hair isn’t short its tightly curled, and that chemical processing causes so much damage the hair grows/recovers slowly. I’d get a hint when they told me their natural hair (as newgrowth) was sooo dry and when I dug a little deeper I would find out they had no idea how to maintain or style natural hair.
I really think it’s what natural hair represents that makes it so attractive to some men. A confident man is attracted to a confident woman. On the other hand a man who lacks confidence finds a confident woman threatening.
It does seem to be a litmus test for how comfortable a bm is with himself. I hope more bm will
My late husband who was white, loved my natural hair. My family, who are Southern,are typical hypocrites who love light skin and straight hair but don’t approve of how you get it(mixing with white), and they didn’t approve of my hair. I’ve always been the black sheep-no pun intended. Now I have dreads and black people have reacted more negatively than white. It’s because when you are black without apology it threatens those who are trying to live for the approval of white America. I also think it’s true that some people think that women with dreads are gay, that’s why I’m growing mine out longer and dressing more femininely.
Who cares what white men like? Why are some black people caring or noticing if white people like our natural hair. I know i don’t give a damn. Nor do white men approach me. I live in Chicago, and I don’t get white men trying to talk to me because of my hair. Black men approach me, and it’s not because of my hair. My currently boyfriend and ex boyfriend liked me for me, and not because of my hair. They are both black men at that. Also don’t think that there are black men who don’t appreciate natural hair, a lot of them do, or a lot of them really don’t care whether your hair is natural or not, so stop thinking that they don’t….or move to another city.
you just pretended all of our first hand experiences didn’t matter.
this isn’t about white men, our decision to wear our hair natural was made when we decided to accept ourselves, what my experiences with going natural have shown me is that alot of bm these days are not comfortable with themselves.
my family is southern, and like another poster described, they admire light skin but communicated some seriously racist sentiments about interracial relationships to me and my sister and female cousins when we were growing up.
But I soon discovered this didn’t equal pride because when I made the decision I wasn’t going to start perming my hair at 12 my family hassling me about it until I was 17 and finally permed it. My grandmother insisted on flat ironing my hair every Sunday. She would spend so much time trying to get it as straight as possible I had burns on my scalp.
Fortunately I see a lot of Black women like myself standing up for ourselves, natural beauty that Does Not imitate someone else, and our right to fall in love with a man that values and loves us, not just who we have ‘permission’ to love, permission which bm don’t seem to be waiting on.
anyway, I don’t mean to go so far off topic, I think you understand.
As time goes on Black Women will see that White guys appreciate you more than Black guys period..Black Men ultimately are turning out to be the worst enemy that we can have because it seems they are only around to criticize, demean and belittle Black Women at every turn. Of course there are going to be Black men like ”joe” in here to do everything they can to stop Black Women from seeing what the Black Man really is and how much hatred they really have toward us as black Women. Black Men like ”joe” are trying with all their being not to let us see that White ..Latino and sometimes Asian Men are more supportive and loving than they can ever be. It is what it is and today’s Black Man fails when it comes to loving and appreciating Black Women and it’s time Black Women move on without them.
Tsk tsk.
I’ll only say this: when that white/asian/latino person impregnates you, you will have to raise your so-called greatest enemy: a black man.
I hope you will have changed your tune by that time.
I’m white and have dated black women for five years. I’ve always been attracted to the natural hair that many black women have. For those who say it’s a “fetish” (for white men to be attracted to black women’s hair), and think that it’s a “slave fetish,” let me ask you this: is it a “fetish” for a black man to be attracted to a white woman’s blue eyes (or for black women to be attracted to white men’s)? No one would say that. Natural hair is beautiful. It’s soft, frizzy & curly. I used to think that other white’s would be attracted to permed/chemically straightened black hair (cause most white women have straighter hair). I was surprised to learn that MOST white men, in GENERAL are attracted to natural hair. There is something within us that is attracted to it. Maybe it’s just different to us? Unfamiliarity can breed “exoticism.” I dunno. Then again, white women seem to think it’s pretty too (or so my black gf says).
I will say that I’m not attracted to afros (especially when they are like a big circle), but I don’t like big hair in general (I remember “mall hair” that white chicks sported in the 80′s…yuck!). Poofy blow outs, microbraids, pressed, dreds, twist outs, etc. arw all attractice to me . It also adds to the thrill of kissing a nice set of soft chocolate lips :). God gave you that curly hair for a reason. Trust me, You look great with it.
I think one of the reasons I was SO attracted to natural hair (as well), is that black girls (when I was a kid..in the early to mid 80′s) were STILL sporting the natural hair. I guess it was a holdover from the 70′s “blacK is beautiful” philosophy. I remember the black girls in my grade school coming to class with frizzy pig tails tied up with yarn. (Which was cute to my young eyes even then). It seems now in our “we all have to look perfect according to celebrity culture,” natural hair is considered “nappy” & unattractive to a lot of people. It’s just as bad with white culture (getting plastic surgery to change little “flaws” that they don’t like, and severely altering themselves so they don’t even look like themselves…a SIN). Asian girls getting their eye lids s rounded to look “European” (another sin). God forbid anyone have natural, unadulterated beauty.
Well, that’s my 2 cents (for what it’s worth). Just remeber ladies, that beauty IS beauty; be it black, white or otherwise. Men are attracted to beauty. We aren’t all necessarily chasing the “perfect white look” (aka heroin-skinny girls, blue eyes, blond hair etc). This goes for WHITE MEN as well. We also don’t judge black women based on Euro standards. I mean, if you’re not white, then we will (obviously) compare your looks to what is beautiful in your own group/race.
Either way, black women, just remember…you are beautiful as you are. You make our hearts race too..
I’m a black girl with natural hair…whoever you are John…I adore you!
John, marry me. :)
If you haven’ t notice it yet, keisha and terri have implants in their heads, by their kkk masters who send them on blogs to demonize black men.
I know I’m kind of late to reply, haha. In fact the only reason I found this was because I typed “white guys with natural black hair and blue eyes” to find a picture for a report I’m writing about Irish people.
Anyways, I’m only 14 and I have never relaxed my hair, I usually kept my hair in a pony tail until a month ago when I decided to wear it down. When it is down it goes down to the top of my shoulders. I’ve straightened my hair before and it goes a few inches down my back(I got a few compliments) but when I wore my hair down (my hair is naturally curly) I got like 4-5 compliments a day for the first 3 weeks. I get some every now and then, also. The funny thing is that they were compliments from people of all racial backgrounds and since I like guys of all racial backgrounds I kind of liked it, lol.
Also of pictures I’ve seen of interracial couples, the black girl/white guy pictures I see almost all the time the girl has her hair natural and I’ve asked myself this question a few times but shrugged it off thinking it was just coincidental. I guess it doesn’t matter if you perm/straighten your hair or keep it natural. I like my hair natural and I guess so do others :)
Black women really are some damaged goods. White women love to compliment you and touch your hair too –but do you honestly think they want to wears theirs like that? No, cuz white men don’t want that. I’m sorry so many of you are so steeped in low self-esteem and hate black men so much. It’s sad really. And funny:)
. . . your logic is off dude. This is coming from a 17 year old. First, you can like the way something looks without wanting to have it. Second, how are you going to speak for all white men? I didn’t know you knew ALL the white men on this planet. I also didn’t know you had total recall memory because you would have to in order for your statement to be a valid one. Third, it seems you have some resentment and some psychological issues you need to deal with, because anyone who finds joy in another’s low self worth is a sad excuse for a human. As one last final statement, no one ever once said they hated anyone. You should practice up on your reading and comprehension skills BRAHH!
and I don’t care if I’m over a year late.
Well, autumn leigh, I must say that Jay has a bit of a point, but only concerning unnaturals, they do often look like some Dr. Frankenstein has transplanted the scalp of some European or Asian girl on the head of a black beauty, ruining her dignity and balance.
And you…Jay…are a shining example of ignorance and everything I avoid in a black man. Its sad…and funny :).
OK, so I’m a white guy who has kinky, frizzy hair except right after I’m out the shower – then it’s Jerri juice looking for a few hours. So…… What the hell is this pressing thing? like straightening? how do you get the frizz to calm down without fucking it up or straightening it? I use like a cup of Aussie 3 minute miracle and that’s pricey :) help me out please
im really late on commenting on this. i read clutch frequently and i saw this featured in an old email. i read this a long time ago but im just commenting on it now.
i definitely do not think this article at all seeks to divide people. it is simply addressing the issue of beauty and what is accepted and admired in certain circles opposed to others. as a natural haired black girl, i can say that *in my own experience* this tends to be very true, that i get many more compliments from white men than black men. i actually had back to back comments in one day from a black guy and a white guy who both know me from school. i had my hair straightened one day and the black guy told me that i should wear it that way all the time because it looks much better, while the white guy told me that while he likes the change, he prefers my kinky hair because he sees it as “raw beauty, nothing fake” which I thought was just beyond sweet!
The average opinions of the black men I have met in my own life just follow this trend – the black guys generally dont like it. i guess i cant blame them – they are simply mentally oppressed products of their society and that society teaches them what should be considered beautiful. maybe they arent strong enough to think for themselves and they buy into it. idk. i guess i might know a bit more about it because im not simply going off random comments from strangers. i grew up in predominantly white schools, i go to a predominantly white university, and I have lots of white friends and all the guys I have dated have been white. I have a good amount of black friends too but i have only dated black girls. most of my black friends are girls as well. anyway, so im also judging by the friends i have who are close to me and the guys i have dated. a lot of white guys dont really care, some prefer straight hair, etc. however i would definitely say that even considering those conditions, there are still more white men who are open to accepting and seeing beauty in natural hair than there are black men. that isnt to say that there are no black men that do, but i do believe that there aren’t as many who like or prefer natural hair on black girls. this would be in america btw though i have a feeling it could relate to a global trend in many other nations. the number of men in general who like or prefer natural kinky hair is still very small, dont get me wrong.
there is a definite anti-natural attitude in the black community. as someone else said already, the white oppression over beauty is what started it but black people have perpetuated the attitude against kinky hair more than any other group lately. i just think its sad that many of us cant appreciate our hair with no chemicals or heat stress to straighten it but it is what it is. even with the few of us who are going natural these days, i doubt it would ever actually change. it may become trendy but i would hate that. i didnt go natural because of what anyone thought of me or to fit a trend, i went natural as part of a journey of self acceptance and what i think to be enlightenment in terms of breaking free of the restraints on theories of “good hair.” im not white or asian or one of the few black people that are born with straighter hair and i shouldnt be expected to pretend as if i am just to please other people. i havent gotten an overwhelming amount of negative comments, dont get me wrong. a lot of people like my hair. however i expected to get all kinds of negative attention from my white friends and white people in general, but little did i know that the people who would have the most negative things to say would be my own.
As a white man who is attracted to black w
…women’s natural hair and black women in general, I think it is strictly an aesthetic preference. I don’t think the fact that some some white men are attracted to a black woman going natural has some sort of “fetishist” undertones…the attraction to the “exotic”. It is what it is. Its no different to how many men prefer overweight women, skinny women, tattooed women, women are play the part of different “scenes”: rockabilly, punk, the Lolita look, etc. Same deal with women who only prefer tall men, skinny “geeky” men and so forth
Some things cannot be boiled down to some psuedo-psychological conclusion. We’re all animals who are attracted by visual stimuli. I don’t think there’s anything more to it than that.
I can see why a WM would would want something exotic. Metoo, sometimes I like chinese, because it is different. I have not had any Indian(asia) yet, but it is becomming trendy with bollywood taking off.
Should a meaningful relationship be based off of something different? Do you really want to be desired because your different than Vanilla Jane?
For me, I like natural hair, because my preference is natural. Straightened hair is as bad as blue contact lenses. FAKE!!!
Natural hair is good in the bedroom. Nothing worse than pulling off the lace wig, during hair pulling session.
I have noticed that the majority of white men I see with black women all have natural hair. Before I actually went natural, I did notice a lot of white men would ‘compliment’ my natural hair weaves and stare at me.
So, there is much truth to this. I think they prefer a ‘real’ black woman versus one they may feel is trying to be someone else.
Different strokes for different folks though. I do know some white men prefer straight hair on black women, but for the most part they think we are more beautiful or just as beautiful with our natural hair.
The only way to know if this is true is to be a natural. I am a natural, and from my experience, non-bm who like bw *prefer* natural hair on them, and most non-bm are ok with it as long as it is well groomed. But the men who prefer BW for the most part seem to think that, bottomline, nature gave you the hair that suits you best (and I happen to believe that it’s true, as the straight looks never suited me as well as the natural looks that compliments my features does).
Being natural is actually liberating as a woman, and if we’re gonna be practical, ladies, I have found out that it increases your dating options, picture this :
You’re in a room full of straight haired women and you’re the only natural, 20 women in total. In that same room 20 men. 15 out of 20 men prefer straight hair, 5 men prefer naturals and they all look at you, therefore : 19 girls will have to choose among 15 men (less than 1 men as an option) while you, the natural, will have 5 options. BASICALLY, being like “everyone” is less beneficial LOL.
Anyway, having natural hair is a hidden blessing. You have to experience it to realize how amazing it is to finally be what you were born to be.
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