Sex, Lies & Picture Texts: Just Say NO!

by Geneva S. Thomas

Ladies, the record shows sending freaky picture texts to your man just ain’t worth it. In the past year, loads of naked picture texts have been revealed from individuals in the public eye coming back to bite their seemingly respectable behinds. The latest exposé is none other than Evelyn Lozada, cast member of VH1′s “Basketball Wives.” TheYBF posted exclusive images of the former wife of Antoine Walker posing naked to the snap of a phone camera.

No information has been revealed on who leaked the pictures. We’d like to be sure that Evelyn like many women across America trusted the individual she sent the pictures to. Now the compromising photos are available for the whole world to see.

Although its rumored celebrities and pseudo-celebrities leak the pictures themselves in efforts of attention and notoriety, the seconds of fame can’t add up to years of regret and shame.

Scores of women are asked by men to send a little evening snappy snappy. Not only do men ask, some even beg:

1. Please, please, please! I’ll delete it right after you send it.

2. You don’t have to put your face in it.

3. Just show me a little…

4. I’m your man (or husband), don’t you trust me?

What if you obliged your lover’s persistent plea and for whatever reason the pictures were blast in an email to all of your mutual friends? Can you imagine the betrayal and embarrassment?

Ladies, let this serve as a warning. JUST SAY NO!

Photo Source: TheYBF.com

  • http://thehappygoluckybachelor.blogspot.com Clnmike

    After talking all that smake about Dwight Howard’s baby mama, now look at her. What I dont understand are people who think that taking pics like this are going to stay between you and the person your giving it to. Hell no!! Thats why you take pics to show people!

  • isolde

    Yeah, real talk. Evelyn is the main one on that show doing the slut shaming and trying to crack the conduct whip to keep the other women in line. Now I definitely hope there’s a second season so Royce can use these leaked photos to go in on Miss Evelyn.

  • binky

    @Isolde I agree. Evelyn came off as fake like her image was holier than thou and she was the expect in conduct and behavior of the “basketball wives, girlfriends, jumpoffs, whatever” club and always gave Royce a hard time. So I would like to see how she is going to address this

    Wait, I thought she was his Girlfriend for 10 years not wife. Personally, I never understood why snapping pictures of yourself naked and sending it was sexy or hot. I think that is so stupid. I mean in this day and age where you got hackers and photo/video tapes leaks and scandals it is a best bet to keep photos of yourself. Finally, if a guy has to pressure you into sending pictures like this, clearly he has an agenda. I mean if a guy can’t wait to see you in the flesh and in person then their is something wrong with him

  • Alexandra

    Wow! She has a grown daughter, I wonder how she feels?

  • Akai

    In this 21st century of ever-changing/upgrading technology, I don’t understand how some people remain so dumb! Just dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb!

    I’m nobody’s prude yet savvy enough to eschew doing certain things and how to control the combination/access to evidence of any freaktastic events that may go down with the husband and myself.

    My little brother has been a skilled hacker since he was 9 and my gullible naive behind had to learn the hard way that a lot of people are liars, the internet is no joke, and everything you type and send through the frequencies and waves of the air by phone or laptop is ‘snatchable’, ‘traceable’ and ‘recoverable’ when you think it isn’t or that you’d deleted.

    Lessons? Go sexting or sending a shot of your privates to the current boy/girlfriend? Stand by to be labelled a “ho” and for the whole school, neighborhood or town to see ya lil pitiful 6th grade looking twig ‘n berries or raggedy poontang and, please, don’t cry about it after you chose to do it!

    Let your life and actions reflect who you really are or are truly about, and don’t send/put shiz out there if you don’t want it up for public consumption or are incapable of handling the fallout (however the wind blows) with class and no regrets or explanation.

  • http://thehappygoluckybachelor.blogspot.com Clnmike

    2nd season? Good God no,lol.

  • A Layyyyydeeee

    Eh, honestly, I feel like, what’s the big deal? What do they mean “regret and shame”? It’s your body. What are you so ashamed about?

    My basic feeling has always been – if someone tries doing that: so what. It’s my body. This was taken and intended for someone I wanted to have it at the time – and I’m glad I did it. I’m a grown ass woman. And what?

    There’s nothing any of us have underneath our clothes that all of us don’t basically have, or have seen. Biiiiiig deal. This is such an American phenomenon. Europeans would laugh at how nuts we get over the human body.

    But yes, in general, you shouldn’t be sharing anything – a toothbrush, a potato chip, a cab ride — with someone you basically don’t trust or have doubts over whether you can trust.

  • BTW

    Don’t scare people.

    People should feel totally empowered to share things they want with people they love.

    If someone invades that privacy, that should be a very poor reflection of the person who invaded privacy, not the person who — as an adult — chose to (and has every right to) share intimate things with a person they love or care about. That’s 100% their right.

  • http://www.deanbreaker.com/ Martin

    Yeah, real talk. Evelyn is the main one on that show doing the slut shaming and trying to crack the conduct whip to keep the other women in line. Now I definitely hope there’s a second season so Royce can use these leaked photos to go in on Miss Evelyn.

  • Ly

    I completely agree with this comment. However, I think people should be wary regardless. If you are okay with the possibility of others seeing a racy picture of you, go right ahead. If not, you should think twice before posing and clicking send.

  • http://www.borncompany.com/ Paul

    Eh, honestly, I feel like, what’s the big deal? What do they mean “regret and shame”? It’s your body. What are you so ashamed about?

    My basic feeling has always been – if someone tries doing that: so what. It’s my body. This was taken and intended for someone I wanted to have it at the time – and I’m glad I did it. I’m a grown ass woman. And what?

    There’s nothing any of us have underneath our clothes that all of us don’t basically have, or have seen. Biiiiiig deal. This is such an American phenomenon. Europeans would laugh at how nuts we get over the human body.

    But yes, in general, you shouldn’t be sharing anything – a toothbrush, a potato chip, a cab ride — with someone you basically don’t trust or have doubts over whether you can trust.

  • http://www.loudblast.net/ Adam

    I completely agree with this comment. However, I think people should be wary regardless. If you are okay with the possibility of others seeing a racy picture of you, go right ahead. If not, you should think twice before posing and clicking send.

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