“Everybody loves Raymond.” Nicki Minaj, you lie.
Watching Minaj’s cameo in Usher’s “Lil Freak” video, it’s hard not to have a Joe Wilson outburst. Besides the tragic display of a mid life crisis, the four minute clip is the latest example of hip hop’s complicated relationship with bisexuality.
Rocking split colored bangs and screaming the names of Santa’s reindeers into a stranger’s ear, Nicki scouts the bevy of video girls to bring back to Usher. The threesome fantasy is not new to hip-hop, but with her newfound fame, Nicki Minaj has given the bisexual woman a space on the track. Even with the additional voice, the portrayal of the lady is, well, a tramp.
Necessary components of the rapper’s lifestyle, the bisexual women have been simplified between lines and over beats. She is a gorgeous woman who could have any man she wants and also happens to go both ways. She is promiscuous and insatiable. Unabashedly bold, she radiates sexual energy from the moment she walks through the room. She is a less complicated version of Alice Walker’s jazz singer from The Color Purple, Shug Avery.
Looking at picture painted by hip-hop, you would be hard pressed to see any dimension to the bisexual woman. Her life and choices are what Shug Avery was on stage- a simply tantalizing display. She is deliciously uncomplicated and purposely one dimensional. How else would she fit into sixteen bars?
For hip-hop, the bisexual woman is a means to an ends. In the case of the average rapper, she is one third of a threesome and for the rising Minaj, it has been the distinguishing feature to set her apart on her road to fame. None of the speakers are much interested in exploring or fleshing out the character and most listeners won’t press them to do so. The fantasy works better when it is not challenged. And after all who really cares? This is how hits are made.
The simplification of the bisexual woman in hip-hop is not just an issue for the LGBT community; it is an embarrassment to us all. The very fabric of contemporary hip-hop culture is deconstruction. It is an art form that rose from young people who saw discrepancies between what was happening in their streets and what was presented on the national stage. At its best, it asked questions that unnerved a nation and affected people’s way of thinking. To say that the art form should not be subjected to intellectual scrutiny, is to discredit its power as a cultural force. The less complicated approach has never been authentic to hip-hop. Despite the varying definitions and stages of growth, the one qualification was that the music be real.
Like Miss Nicki’s backside, hair, lashes and nails there is nothing real about the woman called a “Lil Freak.” She is a video extra that makes for a great one time hit, but can hardly be considered a classic. The shallow depiction is a far cry from what made Walker’s Shug Avery so great. Despite her stage act, she was a real woman with complex emotions and relationships. She was beautiful but hardly perfect, a heroine in some moments and lost in others. She was a rich character whose range went far beyond her raspy alto. You may not have wanted to love her like Celie did, but you had to appreciate the woman she was.
As a heterosexual woman, I find this message particularly troubling. Using sexuality to convince a man that you’re “really f*cking with me” is not the message we should be promoting to younger girls (or boys for that matter).
For sure, Alice Walker, a Pulitzer Prize winning author had more room to delve into the nuances of Shug. But so-called high art is not only attainable by novelists, it can be achieved by anyone who makes a commitment to create. Old Tribe Called Quest records makes me yearn for the days when emcess used their pens to make observations, not just dance tracks. Lost in the pulsating bass of Usher’s hit are less than educated impressions of bisexuality.
The first of these assumptions: they’re all uber femme and uber hot. That may be the standard requirement for music videos but I am positive there are some bisexual women somewhere in the world that do not look like video honeys. The second: a bisexual woman is defunct when it comes to emotional relationships. Attempting to give explanation for her sexuality, hip-hop has pushed the narrative of the bisexual woman as one who can’t choose because she can’t commit. Third: one that should be personally offensive to all women regardless of their sexual preference- the promotion of bisexuality as a tool to lure and attract attention. As a heterosexual woman, I find this message particularly troubling. Using sexuality to convince a man that you’re “really f*cking with me” is not the message we should be promoting to younger girls (or boys for that matter). But as the camera rolls, both Usher and Nicki have continued to play their roles as willing participants in perpetuating the myth of the sexually starved bisexual woman who is always ready for a threesome.
The selection of her stage name alone makes Miss Minaj (hood version of “ménage à troi”) suspect, but her willingness to comply solidifies her role in this mess as well. Even though she has a voice on the track, she puts salt on the wound by playing along as the subservient female who chooses to engage with women at the request of the alpha male in her life. Not only is it sexist, it is a missed opportunity for the rapper who claims to look forward to a gay friendly hip-hop culture.
Hip-hop’s bisexual woman is nothing more than a sexual toy, an incarnation of late night vulgar thoughts. When men and women holding pens choose to conceive of her beyond her body, we will be able to get a better picture of the woman outside the bedroom. But in her current state as a on call hoe, I have to conjure up Shug’s famous line and say to hip-hop, “You sho is ugly.”
The whole industry..music, tv & all…is just exploiting the LGBTQ community. It a bullshit “hey, look we show gay ppl allll the time now. We’re very supportive in giving them equal opportunities.” But it’s mainly to attract a larger audience. I swear I feel theres a trend in the mainstream with this..kind of like hollywood & black actors after Melvin Van Peeble’s movie. Such a mockery
Yall going to get enough of blaming “black men” for everything under the sun.
It’s not black men solely. It’s about how women are represented in the media and the execs are usually not black men. In hip hop videos the majority of the rappers are black men…so they are not blameless. They do play a part.
I don’t even have anything more to add except to say that I too agree with all the above commentary and I am glad to see that i’m not the only one, because being apart of the “late teen/ 20-somethings” black community, sometimes it seems like i am.
I’m part of the early 20 something black community and i feel the same way. It gets mentally isolating out here.
since about 2005 bisexuality has been a rising trend among young women. someone mentioned it being two girls trying to entertain a man by kissing each other or doing other things. these fake lesbian woman are cutely called “barsexuals” beause they are only into women when other men are around or when they are drinking.
the sad thing was that in my experiance in high school in 2008 was when the song “i kissed a girl” came out. i SWEAR about a month later almost every girl in my high school was claiming to be bisexual and it was the cool thing to do to be kissing other girls bragging about doing OTHER things with another girl and wearing rainbows and pretending to be a lesbian. they do it because they think its cute and what men want to see. they see the response of men whenever lesbianism comes up in the conversation and as teenage girls doing this they do it because they think its the only way to get a boy’s attention. its very sad and it makes a lot of REAL gay and lesbian people angry because these “barsexual” women are making the real lesbian women look like women that will do anything.
people these women as the new breed of hoes. women who will have sex with anyone literally,regardless of gender.lol
You took the words right out of my mouth!!! So co-sign your statement.
Sorry but when I think of Bisexuality, I think of entertainment and a fad as well. I don’t take it seriously because it seem like these days some women are going around saying they are bisexual just for the shock value of it, to impress men and to capitalize off of it because it seem so cool and risky to say because you seem like that “IT/bad girl” instead of thinking “hey, their are actually people like that and live their life like that and it isn’t a trend but their lifestyle.”
I remember when Angelina Jolie came out and said she was bisexual, the media ate it up and made her sex appeal and brand shot way up because it became a fantasy for all men now flash back to Katy Perry “I kissed a girl” you have everybody from Pink, Ke$ha, nicki, meagan fox, etc. going around saying they are bisexual too for their image and fame to increase. they are basically selling a fantasy and we don’t know if we are truly bisexual or not. this is just so typical of hollywood they take one classification and trend of people and run with it and capitalize off of it.
So if regular people are looking at them as the status quo of bisexual men and women and the face of what bisexual people act and behave then they need to open their eyes and explore the LBGT community because they will get a rude awakening on this lifestyle. Celebs shouldn’t be a representation of anything that is like saying Elton John is the representation fo the gay community and the face of it when not all gay men act like him
Not a fan of Nicki but why do people keep ripping into her? She is not the sole blame of the image of bisexuality in the rap and hip hop community nor should be placed as the face for this debate, that is kind of using her as a scapegoat but maybe y’all need to ease up on her because she is not the end all to be all of everything wrong wth hip hop/rap now. Come on clutch….
@fraulein17 and @ Binky,
I agree with the both of you!
I think “bi-sexuality” fad has gotten a little out of control.
A month ago, I had over-heard four teenaged girs (all minorities, who appeared to be in the age range of 13-15 years old) talking about their bi-sexuality, to a trio of boys.
A strong aspect of all pop/rock/r&b/hip hop music has been sex. Is it fair to come down so hard on hip hop? I listen to the Roots and Jean Grae and Common as well as Ye and Jay. You can find good music if you want to. Jean Grae is as good as there is but instead of supporting her these sites would rather beat on Nicki. Is Nicki selling sex? Yes, isn’t Gaga doing the same thing in the same way?
To be fair – we are huge fans of Jean and have reached out numerous times to her camp for an interview. We hope one day soon she will grant us one.
Best,
Clutch
lol first off, you should probably spell Nicki’s name correctly in the piece. Some readers will instantly discredit the article because of stuff like that.
Secondly, it’s not Usher or Nick Minaj’s responsibility to represent the LGBT struggle or to dedicate their careers to debunking stereotypes. They’re artists, and they’re going to either A.) do the art that represents them and how they feel, or B.) Do the art that’s going to get them money. It’s that simple. She may say ish like “I want to empower young girls to make them all feel like barbies,” but she’s not going to sacrifice her art and her money for it. It’s her choice, just like it’s every artist’s choice. It always amazes me when musicians are always held to certain standards that other artists aren’t.
“The shallow depiction is a far cry from what made Walker’s Shug Avery so great.”
What’s the use of chastising Nicki Minaj for not being Shug Avery, when she’s not trying to be Shug Avery in the first place? That’s like me saying, “Nelly isn’t anywhere NEAR the conscious rapper that Mos Def is.” Of course he isn’t, because they’re completely different artists with completely different goals.
If a man is going to disrespect a bisexual woman based on an Usher and Nicki Minaj song, trust me when I say that he was going to disrespect you in the first place. The song is only reinforcing what he already felt. And while I can comprehend the idea that things like this make it worse, it’s useless to try to place a responsibility like that on the artist. In fact, many artists refute resentments like that so much that they rebel and make even more music like that just to show they can do what they want.
BTW, I can name several female emcees that represent the LGBT community really well with making fantastic music that doesn’t pander to the stereotypes that you enjoy. But their music doesn’t necessarily open eyes about LGBT issues either – it doesn’t talk about discrimination, or hate crimes, or unjust sexual orientation laws, etc. But they still make great music that doesn’t adhere to the stereotypes you spoke of here. Would their music be more acceptable, or would it still not live up to the standards of participating in the LGBT fight?
The real resentment should be with major record labels that don’t house LGBT artists or support their music because they’re afraid of supporting something that doesn’t have a bandwagon yet. But misplacing the criticism to artists who aren’t obligated to that responsibility doesn’t make sense.
P.S.: With this song, Nicki Minaj actually gave LGBT people an opportunity to start a discussion about stereotypes in urban entertainment. How many other artists can you say that about?
lmao, and I spelled her name wrong myself. But I think I made my point either way
“P.S.: With this song, Nicki Minaj actually gave LGBT people an opportunity to start a discussion about stereotypes in urban entertainment. How many other artists can you say that about?”
@WEKetchum
No, No, No, You’re giving Nicki way too much credit. Usher could have recorded this song with or without Minaj and sparked this discussion. Pop culture’s fetishization of bi-sexual women and talk of threesomes, bisexual innuendo and women catering to men by inviting extra partners into the bedroom was going on way before Nicki Minaj. Plus, I don’t think Pitterson necessarily expects Minaj to be a conscious rapper. I think some of what she’s saying is that Nicki’s use of bisexuality is the racial equivalent of “cooning.” There’s some new Robert Townsend documentary with a bunch of famous, black comedians and intellectuals discussing cooning or resorting to the least common denominator, in terms of racial stereotype, for laughs.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rzml98RP3EI&feature=player_embedded
In the “Lil’ Freak” video, Minaj partakes in the worst of kind bisexual, female cooning by rounding up women to pander to the male gaze. It’s no different than women putting on bisexual displays in public places and nightspots, not for their own gratification, per se, but solely for the purpose of titillating men. From the first line of the song, Nicki asks “Want me to get you something, Daddy?” Then when she finds a possible recruit, she lets the girl know that she’s “on duty” and that her man sent her out on a mission to cater to him.
What would have been groundbreaking is if this had been a Minaj song using Usher as the featured guest artist, where Nicki sends Usher on a mission to procure another woman for their sex games. That would have been avante garde and empowering, or even better, if Minaj sent Usher out to get another man for a threesome. But that wouldn’t happen, right? Usher would never do a single or video on a Nicki Minaj album where he’s trolling the club, corralling women at Nicki’s behest, nor would Usher ever ever ever do a single with Minaj where he’s whispering in some dude’s ear, pleading him to have a three-way with he and Nicki. If you can tell me why none of those scenarios I mentioned are likely to occur, then you can grasp how sexist and trite all of this bisexual Nicki stuff actually is.
I’m not saying the song isn’t “sexist” or “trite.” But if that’s the case, then you just don’t like the song. What I’m saying is that it’s not Usher or Nicki’s job to be anything that they don’t want to be. It’s no artist’s “responsibility” to debunk stereotypes unless they want to. If you think the song is sexist, fine – but it’s not their job to make the LGBT community happy, just like it isn’t the job to many any other community happy per se. They make the music they want, and they make the music they think will make them money. It’s that simple, IMO.
@WeKetchum
If you look at the segment of your post that I commented on, I critiqued your post script. You were insinuating that Nicki deserves some sort of credit for creating a dialogue, and I disagreed with that.
No one’s denying that many recording artists make the music they think will make them money, but just as an artist’s job is to create art, a critic’s job is to criticize. Pitterson alluded to such in the fifth or sixth paragraph when she writes, “To say that the art form should not be subjected to intellectual scrutiny, is to discredit its power as a cultural force.” So, there’s no need to try to derail the discussion or stifle debate by shifting the focus away from the artists being criticized. As for responsibility to the LGBT community, it was Minaj who went on record in a recent magazine interview advocating for a more gay friendly hip hop culture. You don’t necessarily achieve that by playing into common stereotypes about bisexual women. That’s all Pitterson seems to be saying.
I hear what you’re saying, and I don’t mean to derail the conversation. I’m not trying to “give her too much credit” as much as say what an affect of her song was, and that’s why I made it a P.S. instead of making it a more drawn out point. Her saying what she did in the interview definitely makes it tougher to defend, lol.
I don’t think that Nicki Minaj made it a point to do this song just to open up the discussion about LGBT people in rap…but it’s still an after-affect. I think that at worst, she has opened up the LGBT lane and shown other artists and labels how void it really is. Not giving her credit, but saying what an affect of her music may be.
Not to mention the fact that whenever artists are making a message that’s that much against the grain, it takes them a long time to be taken seriously. Nicki’s career has already taken different turns for her to prove certain points. I met her a while ago, shortly after she had made the Lil Kim poster with her squatting and licking a lollipop…she explained that she was really hesitant to do that, but that she only did it so people would initially listen, and that she would be more once she got on. And while the poster was super sexually charged, IMO, now the sexual aspect of her image is less noted than the voice changes and the whole weirdo/eccentric aspect of her image. So maybe she’s using something like this to get people talking, but then plans on making more of a LGBT message later on? That may or may not be the case, so I won’t make any assumptions. But I still think that her music did a great job of opening up discussions like this, whether it was intentionally or not.
The sad reality is women think they have to be bisexual or participate in threesomes just to keep a man. We need to teach young women that this is not normal and to go against this so called status quo.
Just playing the devils advocate but… do you think that would be a hit to sexual liberty? I dont think you should say any type of sex is “not normal” unless you just believe in the traditional 1male and 1female pairing, which is fine..
its not that bisexual females are liked any more than heterosexual females, but for casual sex they do have the added benefit of being able to relate more to guys, especially when out, and your bisexual female friend makes approaching women easier cause they are a buffer.. so over time its been accepted..
Also personally I would not want a bisexual female for a long term relationship, unless we were middle age or something, I feel there would be too much competition.
I do find it funny that bisexual men are “faggots” though. If a woman asked her man to bring another man in he’d most likely go off on a long homophobic rant. I know i would.
First off, I believe in 1 woman and 1 man relationships. Second off, I do not judge anyone for what they do or do not do. However, I think that people are looking for something to fulfill their needs and that bisexuality is a form of greed. Looking for whatever or whomever can fill the need right now, whether male or female. The sad part is the sexual thirst will never be satisfied. If a woman is not enough, then its a man, and then it gets into multiple people, and continues on. Self control has to play apart regardless of what sexual liberty people may have.
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I understand that because Nicki Minaj is the new “it girl” in Hip Hop everybody wants to discuss her artistry and criticize her. She’s obviously the most talked about female emcee right now because she’s the most visible but, people need to stop placing so much responsibility on her. Nicki is not responsible for anyone’s children that happens to listen to her music. She doesn’t represent every woman in Hip Hop. She doesn’t represent for every female emcee. She doesn’t represent for every bisexual woman. She’s also not the voice for every woman. So stop putting that cross on her back for her to carry.
Nicki Minaj represents for Nicki Minaj and a handful of people that may be like her. If you don’t dig Nicki’s style then that’s cool. There are tons of other female emcees out here that may tickle your fancy. They may not be on BET, MTV, and VH1 like Nicki but, they do exist. I’ll go ahead with a shameless self promotion. If you’d like to see who these other women are you can check them out on http://www.TheFembassy.com
To Crackatopia there are a few artists out here who has rapped about actually loving women and being in relationships with women. Google Lady LUST, Kin4Life, Siya, Lady Mobsta, and Fiona Simone. There are also a few gay male rappers who have rapped about their relationships as well. Check out http://www.OutHipHop.com.
I’d just like to say that while I definitely see the issue with people listening to a song like this and getting the wrong idea about bisexuals or anyone of the LGBT community this song is only showing one possible side of a bisexual. If someone listens to this song and immediately stereotypes a bisexual that notion or idea has to already be in their head. You can’t tell me that this one song is going to totally change someone’s view.
I’m a part of the LGBT community and I’m very aware that most people just view us as over-sexualized super horny people. Most people just can’t fathom that gays and bisexuals love just like heterosexuals do. I’m not expecting Nicki, Usher, or anybody else to show people that. I honestly thought that this song was cute, fun, very adult, and that is slightly opened the door for other artists to be open about their sexuality on a track. All of the artists that are completely open about their sexuality that I know are indie or underground so for a mainstream artist to do it, that’s bold.
Rappers have been talking about bisexual women for years. “I like girls that like girls that like girls that like furs.” – Shyne (Jimmy Choo ft. Ashanti) So for me to actually hear a woman come on a track and announce her sexuality on her own, regardless of the fact that the track was about a threesome it was liberating.
I liked hearing your perspective
Is Usher “pimping” Minaj to some degree?
I know I’m getting older because I caught the tail end of this song in the car a few days ago and said to myself, “ooh, that’s a hot sample from Stevie Wonder”, now I’m wondering why old school legends let people use good music to convey crap.
It’s clear that this is where stereotypes begin to swallow us whole.
We live in a Girls Gone Wild society. It’s en vogue to be bisexual. Im convinced some of these girls don’t even like girls, but are do it more for attention of men. Another gimmick. Nicki Minaj clock is counting down the 15 minutes. Teaming up with Diddy has just sped it up.
heres another thing… kinda off topic but…
i was watching the tyra show today and they talked about two couples and threesomes and blah blah blah. but what i noticed is that they were talking about the wife being jealous and things being complicated
why the hell are threesomes always required to be two women? and why do men expect women to be okay with that? cause you know for damn sure if you asked for another man in a threesome they’d say ” hell naw! im not gay im not having another naked dude in my bedroom! im not having another man touch my woman”…..
u think i want another woman all over my man? you think i wanna see/kiss another woman?
maybe its just me. but why is it always two women?
This all goes back to the question that was prominent during the Renaissance era: Should artists feel obligated to use their craft to advance their people? They have more influence over the the younger generations than anyone, however, they are in this for money. They never entered this business with the intentions of changing the world. They are out to make a buck. Unfortunately, sex and violence are top sellers. I had my first baby boy back in January and I wonder every day how I’m going to help him to see past all of the garbage that will be thrown in his face. How will I make him rise above it and be a bigger person?
Agreed. As a member of 18-25 age group, I was on the “it’s not the artist’s responsibility to censor the content of their music, but the parent’s to censor what their children listen to” tip. Then I found out I’m having a daughter in September. Now I can’t stand Nicki Minaj. I keep thinking about how, no matter how hard my parents tried, I listened to whatever the heck I wanted to whenever they weren’t looking. I remember thinking that some girls were cooler because they were promiscuous, and therefore sexually liberated. I remember how sexually liberated I thought I was when I DID kiss a girl, only to realize later that I had only done it so that I could say yes when any boy asked “have you ever done anything with a girl?”. I’m regret it to this day. While it is a parent’s responsibility to filter out the garbage aimed at their children, no defense is 100%. I just wish artists like Usher and Nicki Minaj didn’t produce CRAP to make our jobs harder.
@Gelon
What makes it worse is that these entertainers have children!
*puts five dollars in the offering plate* then yells, “PREACH” to Author Pitterson.
But what is the crime here, what’s the wrong? I’ve been in love with a bi-sexual woman. Why is it we see a threesome as a man’s fantasy and not her’s? I think back to the movie ‘She Hate Me’ by Spike Lee. People want to say it was a male fantasy but that’s not true, The only person who’s ‘fantasy’ came true was the Kerry Washington because she got the man she still loved without giving up her girlfriend.
I am a lesbian and I love Nicki.
Stay away from Diddy, Nicki, he is a career killer.
@WEKetchum: It maybe not be an artist responsibility to debunk stereotypes, but the problem is that people believe these stereotypes. Where does that leave me, as a young black woman in a world where so many people believe stereotypes and can’t or won’t see me as a person?
MZ’s words are perfect to what I’m trying to say:
‘It’s clear that this is where stereotypes begin to swallow us whole.’
@Valencia, I want to have children one day and I’m worried about the same thing
As a heterosexual woman, I find this message particularly troubling. Using sexuality to convince a man that you’re “really f*cking with me” is not the message we should be promoting to younger girls (or boys for that matter).
Hmmmmmm. Reading the comments is just as, if not more, interesting than the original article. Several points are highlighted in the dialog that develops among opinionated strangers. :)
1. We’ve all heard that “people tell you who they are, you just have to listen”; Hip-Hop is the same way. If the artist is not taking themselves/their ‘power’/their talent seriously then you can’t take them seriously. Niki, is one you can’t take seriously.
2. The sexism that dominates our culture is often swept under the rug by men and women alike. Once men stop whining for being blamed (you do contribute, get over it already) and once women stop playing into the process by fulfilling stereotypes for attention we can have a “real” conversation and make plans to rectify the damage.
3. “barsexuals” is my new term! I love it, because it is SO true. I am baffled at the newest trend to make oneself attractive to men by kissing/dancing provocatively/sexin’ women, when you are not really into girls otherwise. Moreover behaving this way with your friends. Ummmm yeah not following. Anything that requires you to drink excessively first before you do it… yeah not a good idea.
4. I am disappointed with Usher. Niki ain’t even the beginning. I need him to get his ‘grown man’ up.
5. Niki’s ‘Barbie’ references are disrespectful. Period.
6. And for those that aren’t sure why this should be of some concern… I think Jackie said it best : It maybe not be an artist responsibility to debunk stereotypes, but the problem is that people believe these stereotypes. Where does that leave me, as a young black woman in a world where so many people believe stereotypes and can’t or won’t see me as a person