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T.I. and Tiny Arrested: Is Being a Ride-or-Die Chick Overrated?

Friday Sep 3, 2010 – by

From Black Voices — Straight off the heels of his number one box office movie, ‘Takers,’ Clifford “T.I” Harris, 29, has found himself in trouble with the law, yet again. Instead of gun possession, this time around T.I. and his wife Tameka “Tiny” Cottle-Harris, 36, were arrested and taken into custody for possession of controlled substances. The LA County Sheriff department reports that after recognizing the smell of marijuana in the car, the vehicle was searched and the couple was immediately arrested.

This unfortunate occurrence also comes days after the couple’s July nuptials. T.I.’s repeated run in with the law — just five months after his release from prison — is beyond disappointing. However, his wife Tiny’s involvement appears to be the most unfortunate aspect of the situation. As if she hasn’t already, Tiny proves once again she is the poster child for the term ‘Ride-or-Die Chick.’

The former ‘Xscape’ member has been with Harris through it all. When T.I first started his career and she had to stand in the background, she rode it out. When he became a megastar and she had to deal with ‘groupie’ rumors, she rode it out. Bearing child after child and still being known as the ‘longtime girlfriend,’ indeed she rode that out too. It was Tiny who was in the car when T.I got caught with possessing guns and it was Tiny who did the bid with her man when he was locked up.

But in the end what’s in it for Tiny? Yes, it’s commendable that she’s been able to work things out in her relationship and has stuck by her man, but for what? Ride-or-die chicks are known for doing absolutely anything for their men, where the operative word ‘anything’ is not an exaggeration. These are the types of women that would kill, steal, lie, cook, clean, sleep with — and if necessary like Tiny — go to jail for their man. In fact, proving how much she will do and how unafraid she is to do it becomes the ultimate measure and testament of her love for her partner.

On the second season of her BET reality series, ‘Tiny and Toya’, Tiny revealed that although she would love to revisit her singing her career, T.I hasn’t been supportive about the idea, which begs the question: At what point does being labeled a ride-or-die chick become overrated?

(Continue Reading @ Black Voices…)

41 Comments – Add Yours

  1. Jason says:

    You can talk about what T.I. doesn’t want Tiny to do, but what he did and is doing is a. put a ring on her finger and b. giving her a big bank lush life. I think a lot of women would trade a little loyalty for that big house and nice car.

    • secret ninja says:

      i am usually in agreement with a lot of the statements you make on here, but on this one i am going to have to disagree.

      she had the big house and nice car before she met him, and how many years did it take him to “put a ring on it”? i am so tired of men acting as if they did someone a favor because they asked someone to marry them or because they bought their wife/girlfriend something. how many kids do they have? 5,6,7? they should have a big house, those are his children too, he needs to take care of them.

      as far as “a lot of women” trading loyalty for “the big house and nice car”, i guess that makes a lot of women stupid. and the men who think they can dick around because they provided their wife/girlfriend with nice things are JUST as dumb.

    • sloane says:

      i agree with secret ninja ( and tiffany w.) tiny had a very good income BEFORE t.i. came along. so money doesn’t seem like a valid reason as to why tiny would submit herself to t.i.’s whims.

  2. Jason says:

    I see your point and I’m not saying it’s right but in relationships often it seems that big bank takes little bank. Be it Tiny or Stedman.

    • Tiffany W. says:

      Tiny’s bank is beyond little. She co-wrote No Scrubs.

      Let’s just say, all her Whoopers come with extra cheese. So money as submission isn’t a valid point.

  3. Tamara says:

    I am just going to answer the question as it was posed….the answer is Yes, it’s overrated; clearly. They are not old; they are just too old to be doing the same thing that young foolish people do (not all people- young FOOLISH people do)

  4. Beef Bacon says:

    What?

  5. Beef Bacon says:

    ok, you won, its your online mag…I will take my comments elsewhere and will tell everyone online and in person how hypocritical Clutch is.

    I have been banned I guess….

  6. teachermrw says:

    Are T.I. and Tiny really as stupid as they appear to be? I think so.

  7. @twitthis29 says:

    being ride or die is overrated! If we quit supporting these type movements maybe our men would be better served. The ride of die movement promotes men that live negative lifestyles ie drug dealers, gang-bangers, hustlers.. They need to get real jobs and quit with this foolishness. As with all things glamour runs out…Tiny better be careful and TI the spotlight is fickle….they hail you, they nail you, no matter who you are.

    • secret ninja says:

      i like that quote: “they hail you, they nail you, no matter who you are.” i’m going to have to steal that one.

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