When it come to ‘must haves’ on a woman’s ‘perfect man’ dream list, there’s no doubt that many of us love a tall man. There’s just something about having to stand on tip-toes just to get a kiss that makes a girl’s heart swoon, but what about all the men who don’t meet the 6 ft and up height requirement? Are we missing out on some potentially great guys because they don’t measure up? According to matchmaker Paul C. Brunson we just might be, especially since only about 14% of men in the U.S. meet or exceed the standard. There are a ton of short guys out there just waiting a Vixen happy so here are three ways to let go of the height hate and possibly meet the man of your dreams.

Focus On The Positives

So the guy that just walked up to you at the bar can’t be climbed like Mt. Everest, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have plenty of other amazing qualities. Is he family oriented? A hard worker? Funny? Try getting to know him and find out some of the other qualities this man may possess that you’ll love. Stop focusing solely on his shortcomings (pun intended) after all, you’re not perfect either.

Be Open Minded

We all have a ‘type’. That guy we continuously go after because he meets all the qualifications on our ‘list,’ but have you ever taken the time to see where dating that type has gotten you? If you’re single then maybe only dating chocolate brothas who are 6ft and up hasn’t worked so well in the past. Try giving that 5’8 brotha a chance…he just might be the one to change your life.

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  • I love tall men…..anything under 6 ft just doesnt keep my attention…just my preference

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    • Rick

      That’s because you’re an insecure loser. That’s like me saying I won’t date a girl because her boobs are too small. Get off your pedestal ya dumb cunt.

  • I love tall men. I’m barely over 5′ tall and my partner is 5’11”. He loves my height and I love his, but it’s not a deal-breaker. Just because I’m attracted to something doesn’t mean that it’s 100% necessary or even among the most important attributes in a partner. Height, like all the myriad of factors that men are allowed to “prefer” in a partner, is one of several factors that determines our attraction to someone. Women, just like men, have various factors that they find attractive and different emphasis on the importance of those factors to them.

    In short – and it should go without stating, but several of the men on this post seem to not comprehend that women are also people – women have individual preferences of attraction. Shocking, I know. If I met someone I was really compatible with, I would fall in love with them regardless of height. When I like someone, I really stop seeing their external characterstics. Full stop.

  • Oracle

    I believe some of the women who blogged on here besides the women who mentioned they were tall have the advantage in dating black men because most black men in America prefer short black women. I find it baffling that a large percentage of a particular group of men only prefer a certain type of woman in their racial or nationality group as black men in America do. If you’ve noticed black men in America are very discriminatory toward taller black women.The next time you are out with your friends or your husband or boyfriend notice how many black couples have a shorter black woman and how many black couples have a tall black woman regardless of the black man’s height. You will find that there are far more shorter black women with a black man than taller black women with a black man. Now why is that? Now I see why black men came up with the term “shorty”. It was not to identify a female, but rather a short black female! Literally.

  • jacquelinehick8767@att.net

    Im datin a man thats is shorter than i never thought i would but he has the biggest ego that a tall man cant compare i fell in love with his ego not his short cummins ladies get off the height shit