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Strengthening Spirituality Without Church

Wednesday Dec 14, 2011 – by

I have many friends of many religions but all with similar spiritual beliefs. We all believe in a higher being, though we may call him or her by different names. We all believe that we are connected as humans by something greater than humanity, though our stories of human creation may differ. And we all believe that strengthening our spirits should be a daily activity, one that we can share despite the various religious doctrines we follow.

I´ve found that meditation, yoga, and reiki have served me well as spiritual activities that can be applied to the lives of people from various faiths. Every morning, I wake up to the sound of the ocean, and join a group of artists from my neighborhood in meditation. We practice Qigong (pronounced chee-gong), which combines breathing, stretching, and meditating to calm the mind and heal the body. Together, we hold various poses, breathe deeply, and center ourselves for the day ahead, as the rapid pace of the city can pull our minds all over the place. While we come from various ethnic backgrounds, religious faiths, and walks of life, our meditation in the morning unifies us, creating a beautiful community for spiritual growth and support.

Much like Qigong, yoga also pulls together the art of posing, stretching, breathing, and meditating. I´ve found that holding various positions, particularly centered on my womb, has allowed me to release any pent up energy, anxiety, or fears that I´m harboring in various areas of my life. It is during these stretches and deep breaths that I find myself reconnecting with my spiritual power, belief in the universe, and purpose as a human being. Sharing that with the other women in my community has been phenomenal, and helped me grow both intrinsically and externally in numerous friendships and relationships.

Recently, I was initiated into the practice of reiki, which involves channeling the energy of the universe through placing your palms on various parts of your body or the bodies of others. With Japanese roots, it´s often used as a form of alternative medicine to put the body at a state of equilibrium and heal people struggling with certain health issues. I´ve found that reiki has helped me relax and make peace with my body whenever I feel a pain or cold developing. When I lay my hands in certain positions across my body, I can feel the energy moving through me and usually within a few hours whatever pain I´ve been feeling is gone. In addition, it also is a powerful practice to apply while praying, as I´ve felt like my words and thoughts had more power when I´m touching myself and asking for healing in my body.

While every individual has her belief and religious practices, I find nondenominational activities like meditation, yoga, and reiki as something we could all use to enhance our spirituality.

What nondenominational activities do you use to strengthen your spirit, clear your mind, or heal your body? Share your practice!

14 Comments – Add Yours

  1. avatar Tawnymarie says:

    I agree totally, it’s not about where you Praise Him it’s about doing it. I have a routine that I do to get my day started and it first and foremost involves God. I love it and I will alway’s do it.

  2. avatar African Mami says:

    Mine is called HUMBRA HUMBRA. If you are a regular on Clutch Magazine,you might have seen me mention it from time to time. What it does ya’ll is connect YOU DIRECTLY to the highest being! Basically it involves following these steps with precision and without missing a heartbeat, not even one. If you miss one….it becomes null and void. Here goes.

    1.) Watch Oprah, and listen carefully when she is dolling advice that involves feeling the universe and reaching your potential by climbing and surpassing the skyline.
    2.) After which, you carefully lay a mat-I suggest an Afrocentric mat to be one with the ancestors during this meditation process.
    3.) Close the curtains and light incense. The best incense and the one I feel at one with is the one purchased from my people on Fredric Douglas Boulevard in Harlem. Make sure, you purchase the incense from an old man! They always spit wisdom and blessings on it!
    4.) Sit in a yoga/zen like position (holler if you need more clarification on this).
    5.) Start LOUDLY chanting whatever you feel inspired to say. If words such as chakala bagala, lasata dogota come out your mouth….guess what!!! You are well on your way to spiritual oneness!!!

    HUMBRA HUMBRA!!! I’m in the process of writing a book about my weekly spiritual journey. You can pre-order yours….send me an email. Let’s connect!

  3. avatar Sia says:

    I would like to become more spiritual. I have never been a fan of going to church and sitting there for an hour (or hours, depending on the church) listening to someone tell me how/who God is. It makes me feel so disconnected. I would rather experience it for myself.

    • avatar twee says:

      Sia that’s not what church is about at all, Culturally that can be the case, Spiritually not at all. I don’t even invite people that don’t believe that Jesus is God to church, I speak to them individually. There are people who come to learn who God is in church but ultimately the church is a place of worship for the Christian. And the term Church itself refers to the Christian not the building.

      It’s a way in which we connect and “do life” together, when a Pastor preaches it’s often times confirmation for the believer, strength for the weak believer, knowledge for a new believer, and a witness to an un-believer as I mention if one were to come.

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  5. avatar 2cents says:

    This is a much needed article, here, on Clutch. I participate in holistic practices and often wonder why there aren’t more African-Americans. Not only is it good for you spiritually, but many of these practices are good for your health. They are all inexpensive and can be done anywhere. I’ve made it my personal mission through my writing to get the message out to our community. It’s about finding out what works for you.

  6. avatar ThatChick says:

    Great article! I hope this reaches Black women who feel disconnected from their Creator but don’t want to be. Folks love having tangible things to do :-)

  7. avatar Ginger says:

    I love this article. I spent years in a traditional church. For the past 3 years I’ve come to terms with the fact that church (and typical Christianity) have no meaning to me. I know there’s a Creator and I talk to him in the comfort of my own home. No dogma, no chanting…just me and God.

    People try to get me to go to church. I explain to them that I’ve never had more clarity. I don’t have a label for what I am (closer to Deist) but it has so much meaning in my life.

    • avatar brie says:

      I am DEIST as well, I think that pastor, priest this is just religion while being a deist is to communicate directly with GOD .

  8. avatar Ang says:

    Wonderful article Arielle. I’m big on meditation; it’s my quiet/refocus time. I’ve also taken up Tai Chi. Growing up I didn’t enjoy church; I thought it was because I was a kid who’d rather be at home playing with Barbies. By the time I was 18 I realized that wasn’t the case. I’m still growing and learning spiritually, but I’ve found that being away from church has been a good choice for me.

  9. avatar brie says:

    @ TWEE ,JESUS is not GOD JESUS is just a prophete like ABRAHAM, MAHOMET, MOSES, AMOS,JACOB are also PROHETE which means that they came on earth to GOD’s message to humanity, in fact GOD is above all of these prophetes ; prophete are HUMAN BEING which mean that they are made of flesh, bone, and blood (they are not immortal) while GOD IS SPIRIT,HE IS IMMORTAL HE IS ABOVE THE CREATION BECAUSE HE IS THE RULER OF THE CREATION, HE IS THE CREATOR and he has created human being resembling HIM (its own image). The only difference btw JESUS and some prophete (including you and me) it is that JESUS has been TRANSFIGURATED which means that he went back to this image resemblance to GOD by LOVING the other human being. And as human being we are all supposed to return to this . Plus generally people think that you are already save because JESUS has been crucified but this is wrong as each human being in order to be save we have to act good , and be good to the other human being. The true message given by JESUS is that HUMAN being (male and female ) has to change , he has to LOve the other human being and be good to them instead of being hypocrite and manipulate them as the U.S gvt is doing.

    • avatar a says:

      “Plus generally people think that you are already save because JESUS has been crucified but this is wrong as each human being in order to be save we have to act good , and be good to the other human being”

      Salvation or “to be saved” is done through faith not works alone.

  10. avatar QON says:

    I think a lot of people are throwing out a bunch of meaningless cliches. If you dont like to go to church, dont go but you cant really define the church experience for everyone. You have a lot of older people at church who arent as educated or literate as we are today. The pastor or the preacher could have been one of the few literate people int he community. Also, these men and women are often very charismatic and their leadership is apart of their appeal as well.

  11. avatar Vee says:

    I love this article. I believe spiritual goes beyond sitting int he pulpit. People can sit in the pulpit from Sunday to Sunday all of their lives and still not be spiritual.

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