It’s taken me twenty-something years, but I’m finally ready to get my first tattoo. I’ve always wanted one, mainly because I’m a huge fan of art in general. But there’s something powerful about choosing an image or words to permanently display on your body. I’ve put immense thought into how I use my body as a canvas.
The inspiration came as I was walking through a small town in the outskirts of Salvador (Bahia), Brasil. I found myself surrounded by a tremendous history of African descendents, artists, and spiritual healers. Like many places in Brasil, the walls of abandoned buildings often are decorated with artistic graffiti. Not the graffiti that’s simply name tagging with spray paint, but actual art and words that have inspirational purpose and a message to convey.
I stumbled upon colorful mosaics, lines of poetry, murals of historic figures, and an abundance of visual inspiration. But I also found myself in the company of wonderful people whom gave me powerful memories of a small town and the desire to permanently etch the name of a Brasilian poem I discovered while there and an ancient symbol on my body as remembrance. It’s something that will serve as a daily reminder of the life I was once able to create and one of the experiences that shaped the woman I am today.
But admittedly, I talk to many of my friends and they have a mix of tattoos with “deep” significance and others that were just spur of the moment. Some have the names of family members that have passed on, names of their children, religious symbols, and numerous other works of ink that hold a certain level of importance in their lives. Others have stories of drunken nights with their college friends, stumbling into tattoo parlors, picking something out from the book, and getting matching art pieces.
I’m always amazed to hear the stories behind people’s tattoos. And I find myself asking about each unique looking one that I see regardless of whether it’s the stranger standing in front of me at the grocery store or a lover who is sprawled out on my bed. Every decision has a story, and tattoos are a permanent choice that we make about our bodies. It’s one thing to buy a painting and hang it on your wall at home. It’s another thing to choose a piece of art to permanently etch on your natural temple.
So what’s your story? If you have a tattoo, what’s the inspiration behind your body art? If you don’t, why have you chosen not to get one? Speak on it.
Never had one, don’t really want one. I can’t really think of anything I’d want to put on my body for the rest of my life.
i havent gotten a tattoo because i’m too wishy washy. hell i can’t even figure out what i want from fast food or restaurant menus! just imagine something thats gonna be on my body forever. the convo would go like this
“i want a butterfly” *halfway through the tattoo* ” is it too late to cancel the butterfly cause i want a dragon now” *20 minutes later* ” you know what, i want to butterfly again” LMAO
so i won’t even bother!
SN. i saw this man the other day with a tattoo on both his arms of a woman with her legs spread open and you can see her entire damn uterus.lol the thing is, he had his wife and like 5 kids with him… so inappropriate! i wonder how his wife feels about introducing her husband to people when he has some random naked chick spread eagle on his body.. PERMANENTLY…. especially when it looks nothing like her.
also, would any of you ladies date a man that has face tattoos? i saw this man at a restaurant with his wife and he had like 20 different tattoos all over his face… ew
Yeah, whenever I see face tattoos I think of this skinhead who didn’t want to be part of the supremacist movement anymore and spent a year and a half basically getting his face burned off to get rid of the things.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2055437/Bryon-Widner-tattoos-Criminal-tuns-time-16-months-laser-surgery.html
Face tattoos are so painful to get rid of and there’s no way of hiding them. I don’t think I’d wanna be with someone dumb enough to get one.
@ chanel,
If he FOIIIIIIIIIIIIIIINE yes.
@Chanela Having tattoos doesn’t make someone love you less or stop treating you with respect so yes. I could date a guy with tattoos. Then again I know it’s not everyone’s “preference”, but if you could date a guy with different religous beliefs or ethnic background why not?
On a side note I think Rick Genest is beautiful with or without his full body tattoos.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mIBKifOOQQ&feature=relmfu
Or this. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iLpbMqQMelk&feature=relmfu
I don’t have one although I might get one one day…if I ever find a part of my body I don’t mind being poked with needles for a couple hours, can be easily hidden with clothing, and isn’t the small of my back or one of my hips.
My grandfather suddenly discovered tattoos when he was sixty years old and no longer cared what other people and employers thought and got a gorgeous, elaborate koi tattoo on his arm. My Mom was horrified, lol.
I don’t have any but I’ve contemplated getting one many times. I just don’t want to get one and then regret it later on in life or the next damn day.
I know a woman who has nearly her whole face tatted. she says she got them when she was younger as a form of expression, but now she regrets getting them, because people don’t take her seriously and it’s hard to find employment.
I’m gonna get one on my buttcheeks-IDRIS ELBA will be my inspiration!
I have 8 and am on my way to more. My first was the typical “I’m 18 so I’m going to do whatever I want” tat, which is of a snake on my hip with some words referencing the power of said body part. About 4 have cherry blossoms incorporated somewhere, as that is my favorite flower. They are notoriously short-lived and a great contrast to the permanency of the tattoo, which is a reminder to me that while certain things are fleeting and temporary, the things that really matter will be with me for life.
My favorite is the one on my back, which is of my hand and my man’s cupped together holding a glass orb. Our son’s name is Mekhi Aiden, meaning the fiery one who is like god. Therefore, our hands represent the hands of a creator molding and keeping his children safe in his care. The orb is on fire, and the flames are blue because blue fire is the hottest type. I happen to think my son is the hottest as well :)
I think tats sometimes get a bad rap because people do stupidness like get ice cream cones on their face, but they can be very therapeutic and powerful for others.
how many of your tats are “pink?”
love tattoos! i’m pushed toward more medieval/gothic/old european type tattoos
I have six. My only principle is that it should look good once you’ve forgotten why you got it in the first place, my sixth was actually created for me based on what I told the artist I wanted. For my seventh I’m thinking of letting the artist draw whatever suits him or her, with only minimal guidance from me like size and placement.
I have one they are cherry blossoms on my hip, I got it because there was a time I was going through something and I needed a constant reminder and anchor for me. But this year I’m having it removed, not because I regret it or I don’t like it but I’m not in the phase of my life anymore. So that is a whole other path of watching it vanish and heel over time. But I love well meaning and good body art in general it is not for the fickle at heart
I have one: an ornate key on the inside of my wrist.
I’m planning a piece for my bicep, with the hope that I will eventually integrate it into a full sleeve.
I love tattoos, and I have 2: my 1st is a West African symbol on my back and it holds great meaning. The symbol is from the Adinkra culture and means “those who walk over fire”. It signifies perseverance and strength. Last year I got a small “strength” written in cursive on my lower hip. Soon I’ll be getting the Adinkra symbol for love to balance out all the strength!
I have two– one, my first, i got with my older sister. Its an intertwined treble and bass clef because we’re musicians and come from a long line of them. My second one is broken shackles and the scripture psalms 107:14. It came after spending a summer researching african american opinion of the emancipation proclamation. That summer really meant alot to me and i needed something to commemorate it. I love tattoos but i feel like they need to be for a purpose, have some type of story, spark some type of memory, but thats just me. I know for some people it becomes an addiction, which i can understand. Im thinking about my next one right now lol but i never get one until ive thought about it for quite some time…
I have just one. A tiny 1×1 heart on my right hip. It was the spur of the moment, I wanted a tattoo, I had only a few dollars to my name, and I really love hearts or anything with a heart on it lol. My next one will be more thought out: planning to get an illustration from one of my favorite children’s books–”Her Stories” by Virginia Hamilton– on my left bicep, a half sleeve, to symbolize my love for literature and how it started with that book.
I have Queen Nefertiti on my right wrist. I am thinking about getting her mirror image on my left wrist. I also plan on hieroglyphics in the near future. I just need to figure out placement, but they will most likely be on my spine or down my side. I predict any others I may get will be Ancient Kemet related.
I have two tattoos as of right now:
1.) my first tattoo is a an old school microphone (think a la Billie Holiday era) with stars and music notes surrounding it and the chord from the microphone spells “God’s Gift” in cursive. Its a reflection of my 1st love, my passion and my gift.
2.) my second tattoo is the scripture 2 Timothy 1:7 on my right wrist. That scripture has gotten me through so many things in my life; it was the very first scripture I ever learned and it was the scripture I relied on the most after I went through a traumatic incident back earlier this year..I can look at it and it gives me hope. “For God did not give us the spirit of fear; but of love, power and a sound mind.”
I have eight and ofcourse the first one was at 18 a tramp stamp (ofcourse)! But all of mine are fairly small. I have to hearts on my wrist because I love hearts I love to love and I think they represnt mwe I also have faith on my shoulder blade, love on my ring finger and a few others. I love tattoos I just feel that they should be done places where they can be easily covered and also represnt who you are you can always have a fun one that only few people will ever see…like the one on my butt (wink wink)
My parents had their wedding bands tattooed on their 25th wedding anniversary. I haven’t had a deep longing for a tattoo but I would love to get a colored tattoo if I did. Not sure if it would show well on my skin though.
Don’t do it.
I don’t have any tattoos but would like to get one. My husband and I was thinking about tattooing our wedding bands–but this will happen well after the kids are grown.