I was talking to one of my friends last night and as with most conversations between women we eventually got to the topics of men and sex. She mentioned that her birthday was coming up and that she was thinking of doing something a little kinky with her man. My mind immediately went to some kind of role play, maybe someone gets tied up, or maybe she would go to one of those sex hotels where they let couples make their own themed porno (don’t ask how I know…sorry dad). Never in my wildest dreams did I think that what she wanted to do was ask her dude for a threesome. Guy or girl, didn’t really matter (although she preferred a guy), she just wanted the experience of having a threesome. Now this was the last friend I expected this from so after I picked up my jaw, I asked her why she wanted to do this. Was she trying to keep him? Were they having problems she hadn’t mentioned? Is he forcing her or making her feel insecure? Not that there aren’t women out there that genuinely enjoy this, but most do it for a man, not for themselves so I was a bit curious. Her only response….she’s just curious. Her favorite scenes in adult videos are the threesome scenes and she honestly just wants to know what it’s like.

Fair enough. My question to her was, does she really see a future with her man because I’m not sure how willing he would be to make her his wife and have some kids after watching her get banged out by another guy…just saying. Let’s face it, men aren’t as forgiving as some women can be. Some women can catch their man stealing, cheating, killing or all three at the same time and still find some way to forgive and move on. Men, not so much. They could’ve cheated 1000 times in the last week, but your one time in 10 years is just too much to bear. You know, that whole Madonna Whore complex. While he might sound excited at the idea, especially if it’s another woman, I wonder if something will switch in his view of her once the deed is done. Men want their wives to be sexual creatures, but not the porn star, the homies done had some, type sexual creature. They like to look at their wives or serious girlfriends as having some kind of innocence and purity, the threesomes and trains, etc are usually reserved for the jumpoffs and chicks they see no real future with. My friend hadn’t really considered how her relationship could change after the fact and now she’s taking some time to think things through. But I still wonder about all the other women out there willing to give this a shot. Could it be the best thing ever, or a relationship killer?

Would you have a threesome?

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  • Nope.

  • Hell Yeah.

  • Miss Lovely

    Yeah everyone should

  • Petra Spahr

    Hubby and I have done it both ways as well as with another couple. We love it.