Anytime someone tells me that they want to be famous I always ask them if they are absolutely sure that is what they want out of life. I ask this because fame is not really all that it is cracked up to be. Constantly being put on display for the world can have adverse effects on your life and the person that you are.

Pop singer Katy Perry recently said that she was tired of the fame. Some were shocked by thie statement, but it is more than understandable. When you become famous in essence you are exposing the rest of your life to the public to nit pick at every little thing that you do or say. Privacy becomes a thing of the past and people will focus on your life more than the talent that got you to where you are. It is said that this all comes with the territory of being in the spotlight, and people say they can handle it until they realize that there is no way to shut it off. There are no off days from being famous. Once you are you can expect to be written about, followed and photographed everywhere that you go.

The sad thing is that when you are famous the public will thrive off of your short comings. They look forward to seeing the good girl turn bad and revel in any scandals that pop up about you. You could be the most amazing performer in the world, but if something goes wrong in your personal life that is all people will focus on.

Don’t get me wrong, being famous has its advantages as well. The money, special treatment, traveling the world and being able to live out your dreams are all great, but they come at a price. Some of the most famous and talented people in the world met their end because they couldn’t handle the pressures of being famous. Not knowing who was really your friend and who was just acting because of your status or feeling like you could never do regular things like everyone else because you were constantly stalked by the paparazzi can take its toll on anyone.

It takes a lot of humility and a strong support group of friends and family who don’t care about how famous you are to keep you grounded and sane. The next time you look at a  celebrity and admire the fact that they are a star, ask yourself if you could really handle EVERYTHING that comes along with being famous.

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  • chanela

    i thought this had to do with the whole thing with nicki minaj deleting her twitter and claiming shes tired of fame too.

    i would love to have that life because i have nothing to worry about in the privacy department. i don’t do drugs. i don’t drink and drive. i don’t get in fights. people would actually have no reason to take a picture of me because nothing ratchet and scandalous would be going on.

    regarding katy perry though…. you gotta realize that a lot of these “stars” know where to go and where not to go when it comes to paparazzi. most even call the paparazzi on themselves and then get on twitter and whine about not having privacy. raven symone even said it herself. she goes out with her friends ALL THE TIME but she knows how to avoid paparazzi so that she could have a stress free time. it IS possible people. being in the entertainment industry i really can’t feel sorry for them. they know better.

    • La, California Dreaming (Ocean Blue)

      You may have nothing to worry about in the privacy department, but someone in your family might.