“When are you going to give me a grandbaby?” Even if your parents haven’t asked, chances are you know someone who has been questioned. But, do you know anyone who has been urged to freeze their eggs? According to this New York Times piece, some would-be grandparents are encouraging and offering to pay for the fertility treatment:

I see these patients come in, and they’re with two elderly people, and I’m like, ‘What the hey?’ ” Dr. Schoolcraft said.

The gray-haired entourages, it turns out, are the parents, tagging along to lend support — emotional and often financial — as their daughters turn to the fledgling field of egg freezing to improve their chances of having children later on, when they are ready to start a family.

The technology to freeze a woman’s delicate eggs to be used later, when the eggs being released by her ovaries may no longer be viable, has improved sharply over the past decade. There currently is no single source of data on the number of women who are choosing to freeze their eggs, but doctors in the United States say the practice is slowly growing.

The procedure remains expensive, generally costing between $8,000 and $18,000. And because it offers no guarantees and is still considered experimental by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, a professional association, it can seem to some like an extravagant gamble.

But it is a gamble that many would-be grandparents are willing to take with their daughters, even if it means navigating a potentially uncomfortable conversation.

Have your parents talked to you about freezing your eggs? Would they be willing to front the money?


  • AB

    *files under “Ridiculous Even for First World Issues”*

  • Introverted Leo

    They have not, nor would they.

  • Pseudonym

    It goes beyond just the procedure. The annual storage fees are in the thousands as well. Very expensive for something that doesn’t have a very high success rate.

  • https://twitter.com/#!/clnmike Tonton Michel

    Expensive? I’m sure you can cut costs by throw that joint in the freezer some where next to the ice cream and steaks.

  • https://twitter.com/#!/clnmike Tonton Michel

    “I see these patients come in, and they’re with two elderly people, and I’m like, ‘What the hey?’ ” Dr. Schoolcraft said.”

    OK that has to be made up………

  • Memories

    My mom offered to pay to freeze my eggs. Mind you I was 27 years old. I said thanks but no thanks. I am actually in genetics so I know I have time before worrying about these issues. If your Dr. doesn’t bring it up, I don’t think your parents should either.

  • binks

    LOL wow! Honestly my parents aren’t the type to pressure my siblings and I into having grandchildren, in fact my mom kind of prides herself on not being a grandmother since we are still pretty relatively young and still trying to ground ourselves so they never pressure us with the “when are you going to give us grandkids bit…” so I don’t have this issue….thank god…lol

  • http://www.jessicasimien.com Jessica

    My parents have not asked and I doubt they will. Even if they were to ask, I don’t think they would OFFER to pay. They would probably help me and my husband pay if we needed it.

  • Leonie UK

    I’m trying to not read this with a side eye glint, but I KNOW my parents would pay double the asking price to get a grandpickney right now. My mum wants a child so badly, she would tie me to the bedpost and grab a turkey baser in no time.

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