Comments on: Kesha Nichols to Leave BBW? We’ll Believe It When We See It

By: khrish

khrish — Thu, 07 Jun 2012 22:01:34 +0000

I don’t blame her. I wouldn’t stay around with that bunch. She acted more like the adult on that show for this season anyway. I wouldn’t spend one more minute with that bunch of bullies. I mean you can’t even voice your opinion without Suzie running back and telling every thing that ‘s said by anyone on that show. The other lady from last year left and I applauded her. I remember the woman from BBW L.A. left right after that first fight on the balcony and she never came back. She was so right. I don’t know why any reputable business would even allow this bunch into their establishment……unless they are being paid big money. I certainly wouldn’t want to be any place that they frequent. I do plan to see if they are going to change their immature behavior because they have just overdone it with the violence. So if she decides it’s best for her to leave, I can certainly understand her reasoning. You’re in trouble with Tami and Evelyn if you stay and are their friends or not their friends. They are just from a different lifestyle, it seems.

By: Jessica

Jessica — Thu, 07 Jun 2012 20:35:11 +0000

I remember when she brought her friend to the dinner and thinking how childish it was like she was so scared that she had to go to those lengths to prove her innocent or pass the blame or whatever happened…I can’t keep up with their drama.

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By: ms_micia

ms_micia — Thu, 07 Jun 2012 19:33:12 +0000

In slight defense of that situation though she could’ve laughed it off when Evelyn asked her to confirm and say “I don’t know, that’s yall’s beef”, at the same token she would have been lying. Kenya was lying and there’s video record to prove it. All the girl was trying to do is clear her name of being called a liar by bringing a third party who was witness to it and also had nothing to gain. *All of this, mind you, could be scripted, so really take it with a grain”. Going back and forth about petty drama is something Western women have seemed to enjoy for decades now. I am not defending gossiping, but what I am saying there’s a stark difference between a defending of something that was said and Tami unleashing over forty years of unbridled rage and undealt with issues on a person who clearly did not want an issue with her. Tami needs treatment, heck I’d go so far as to say forced treatment so as she’s not a threat to society. She’s two seconds from psycho and anyone in her path is easy prey. To me that situation with Evelyn and Kenya and what Kesha and Kenya endured during their two altercation is comparing apples and psycho poison oranges.

By: me

me — Thu, 07 Jun 2012 17:27:03 +0000

I didn’t like the ghetto antics but I can’t lie– if Kesha left all the fun of watching BBW with my sister and rewinding/pausing the TV on the parts where she starts to run away will be gone :(

::sigh::

By: Mary

Mary — Thu, 07 Jun 2012 16:41:50 +0000

Kiesha isn’t that innocent, let’s not forget that she started the whole drama with Evil and Kenya and even brought her friend along to participate in the he say she say. Let’s not forget how negative she was to kenya telling her she was going to fail and never gave her any constructive criticism. I am sure kiesha has watched the show before and knows what it is about, the show has never showed these women in a respectful way, it has always been about negativity, fighting, he say and she say. She just naivily though that she would not be apart of the fighting.

Every women on this show is lame as they are effectively living of and making a name for themselves due to the basketball players they have f**ked, dated or married. There is nothing respectful about that. when you watch the show and see their names under it they have who they are an ex instead of job role. All it is teaching women is that in order to have the good things in life and be successful you need to marry a basketball player.

By: TyneandWear

TyneandWear — Thu, 07 Jun 2012 16:28:18 +0000

I want to bet a few yeard from now Tami will reinvent herself as a born again christian and begin ministry. that seems the thing to do with burnt out black folks in the media and beyond. will blame her violent history on her heathen ways. we will all forgive and forget while her church money pays for her retirement.

By: sw

sw — Thu, 07 Jun 2012 16:25:05 +0000

Concur! But, Jen does NOT have clean hands either. In earlier seasons she has mistreated others. She takes delight in seeing others squirm. She, in my opinion is like Shaunie, a passive aggressive individual or in other words, an insecure individual with cowardice behaviors. Additionally, for Jen to be college-educated and so consumed/enamored with the idea/concept of being tagged bourgeoisie, her use of the English language is sub-par. On MORE than one occasion she has uttered “I seen” or “I seent.” Perhaps, now by her being the recipient of such uncouth, uncivilized & immature behavior [hitting], she will re-evaluate her character and not slyly gloat while others in her presence are being mistreated.

In my opinion, it is evident that Royce & Kesha, perhaps the youngest of the entire cast, [the jury is out on Kenya] have character, intellect & emotional/behavioral maturity that FAR exceeds the others. Kesha behaved maturely by not inciting but instead trying to diffuse a confrontation by leaving. It’s unfortunate that some people believe that she deserved her mistreatment because in their opinion she “didn’t stand-up for herself.” NEITHER ADULTS NOR CHILDREN ought to participate in a conversation with a person who already has blown a gasket and is unwilling to behave civilly meaning absolutely NO violence, no verbal abuse and all the other unrestrained and untamed antics . Kesha’s reaction was appropriate for the situation. She did not have an ally there so she diffused the situation and when given the opportunity she left the island altogether. “Strength” is not about throwing fists [remember, even Jen didn't "fight" she hired attorneys to "sue."]

Kenya is on a different plane than her adversaries. I wish her all the best should she choose to leave the show.

By: ms_micia

ms_micia — Thu, 07 Jun 2012 16:10:30 +0000

Normally I would agree but she stuck out like a sore thumb alll season long. It’s almost as if she either never saw the show before she signed up or was niave enough to believe that it wouldn’t happen to her because she’s “not that type of girl”. You could clearly see that she was not ready or willing for what went down on any level. Unlike Jenifer, once she knew that she was part of some bad soap opera-ish high school fight, she got the heck outta dodge and was seen no more. No camera time at all. I believe this was a bad mistake that she will look back on and laugh at, but I truly believe that she is not down for another round. I may be wrong but she definitely gave that impression.

By: Jessica

Jessica — Thu, 07 Jun 2012 15:33:47 +0000

Um…Kesha knew exactly what the show was about from the start. I don’t know how she could watch previous seasons and think that when she started doing the show, the vibe would change.

I don’t agree with bullying but I feel like when you put yourself in certain environments, you have to be prepared for what could potentially happen. You have to stand up for yourself and I don’t think Kesha was mentally or even emotionally prepared to be a cast member on an ex-wife/girlfriend reality show.