The Perfect Date Night: The Strip Club
Date night is something that couples, whether married or not, need in order to keep things interesting and fun. The movies, restaurants and museums can often become boring after a certain amount of time. Surprise your man by suggesting that you two go to a strip club together. You will be amazed at how much fun the two of you will have.
Yes, I know for the more “conservative” types out there think that this may seem a bit outlandish, but I dare you to step outside of your box by trying something with your mate that you never thought about before. Consider this, wouldn’t you rather go with him then have him go on his own or with his boys? Going to the strip club with your man is not only a turn on, but it shows how secure you are in your relationship. Get him a lap dance and vice versa. He will look at you in a whole new light that you will absolutely love.
Once you open up this door, you will allow your man to be more open with you about his fantasies and desires. The fact that the two of you can share the strip club experience, and have a blast while doing it will make him appreciate the relationship the two of you have even more than before.
Going to the strip club with your man is becoming more and more popular, especially with celebs. I see tons of pictures on the web of couples having a night out in the strip club. The carefree, go with the flow atmosphere is refreshing for both parties. Just know that you can’t go with an uptight attitude. If you are going to walk in there thinking that no one better touch your man, or you for that matter, than you might as well stay home. Even if the lap dance thing isn’t for you, you can both simply enjoy the show.
Taking pole dancing classes is something that more and more women are doing in order to spice things up in the bedroom. Why not learn from the pros and use some of the moves you see in the club in the privacy of your home. You may be thinking that the pole dancing instructors are pros, but trust me the moves that are done in the strip club are very different from what you learn in class.
Be open-minded and don’t knock it until you try it. You will be astonished at how this form of “bonding” will bring the two of you closer together.
I am knocking this one out. I am NOT that liberal minded, I am NOT going to co-sign on this foolishness! You are not taking me on a date to the strip club, the fug I look like?! What happened to the jazz cafe’s-they burned down, what happened to McDonald’s-they out of business, NO SIR!!!!!
Imma need Monica to get it together, I saw a pic of her in the strip club with her cuz Luda and I shuddered. Girrrrrrl! uh uh!!
yes what a great date… FOR HIM!
i bet he wouldn’t want to go be “open minded” to go to a male strip club though -_- funny how that shit works!
I agree, this is the dumbest advice I’ve heard today. I guess you can’t blame him for cheating on you if you co-sign ish like watching other women prance around naked. I think only a lesbian would be okay with this.
@Chanela, I never understood this either. I’m sure as hell not going to go to a male strip club, so why are supposedly straight women so down with this? I can see if you are bi or lesbian, but anyone else….
Exactly, STOP THE FOOLISHNESS & THE NONSENSE! So what should the next date be? Going to an orgy or inviting someone to your bedroom? SMH! And we should do this to show ‘how secure we are in our relationship”???!!! Please! I wonder how a man would react if I tell him to take me on a date to strip club with male dancers.…
If your at the point in a relationship were spicing it up includes the strip club I say go back to the drawing board and start again with new options. This whole straight women in strip clubs is tired as is the whole straight women faux lesbians just to turn dudes on is tired. I perfect date night is not making it rain with my dude on some chick, this whole article was basically about him him him. I’m not the ultra conservative lady either matter of fact I’m not into the male strippers,strip clubs do nothing for me,but this sounds just like when Essense Magazine told sistas the new place to meet men was the strip club. More power to those who are into I want to hear just how much have yall gotten close to your man
Yeah nothing says “great date” like witnessing the degradation and dehumanization of other women while with my man.
What are men learning to spice things up in the bedroom?
YES. Exactly!
it’s funny, me and my boyfriend had the perfect date night at the strip club before we were even involved. my best friend, boyfriend and I went strip club hoping one night; we were bored, and after that night me and my now boyfriend started talking. He behaved like such a gentlemen the entire night at a strip clubs it’s no wonder he’s a gentlemen everyday; since day one my baby opens my car door :) and puts me first. (Blessed)