The Perfect Date Night: The Strip Club
Date night is something that couples, whether married or not, need in order to keep things interesting and fun. The movies, restaurants and museums can often become boring after a certain amount of time. Surprise your man by suggesting that you two go to a strip club together. You will be amazed at how much fun the two of you will have.
Yes, I know for the more “conservative” types out there think that this may seem a bit outlandish, but I dare you to step outside of your box by trying something with your mate that you never thought about before. Consider this, wouldn’t you rather go with him then have him go on his own or with his boys? Going to the strip club with your man is not only a turn on, but it shows how secure you are in your relationship. Get him a lap dance and vice versa. He will look at you in a whole new light that you will absolutely love.
Once you open up this door, you will allow your man to be more open with you about his fantasies and desires. The fact that the two of you can share the strip club experience, and have a blast while doing it will make him appreciate the relationship the two of you have even more than before.
Going to the strip club with your man is becoming more and more popular, especially with celebs. I see tons of pictures on the web of couples having a night out in the strip club. The carefree, go with the flow atmosphere is refreshing for both parties. Just know that you can’t go with an uptight attitude. If you are going to walk in there thinking that no one better touch your man, or you for that matter, than you might as well stay home. Even if the lap dance thing isn’t for you, you can both simply enjoy the show.
Taking pole dancing classes is something that more and more women are doing in order to spice things up in the bedroom. Why not learn from the pros and use some of the moves you see in the club in the privacy of your home. You may be thinking that the pole dancing instructors are pros, but trust me the moves that are done in the strip club are very different from what you learn in class.
Be open-minded and don’t knock it until you try it. You will be astonished at how this form of “bonding” will bring the two of you closer together.
Wait what? And we wondered why standards when it comes to dating are the way they are. Furthermore I find it funny women have to be open minded when it’s going to a ladies strip club outing with their man but how many men would be open minded and willing to go to a male strip club for their ladies to further bonding? *crickets* Be careful with this “open minded/liberal” mantra because are you being those things for YOU or him?
Thank you we as women have to set the tone of respectiabilty and good lord have some semblence of standards. Nobody ever puts put what men have to do to spice up things at home if they do it never requires them to leave the self esteem at the door. It doesnt help when other females expect each other to lower standards. I love how the article states how the guy will look at you in a whole new light lol. Yeah a doormat who will do anything to keep him around,next up will be the threesome idea.
OMG THIS! a huge percentage of men (especially black men) are too fearful to even use toys in the bedroom, but women have to break character and do all of the footwork in “spicing things up” to make men happy? okay
You want to spice things up, suggest going to a MALE strip club.
Since the ladies are supposed to open-minded about these things, then there’s no reason the guys shouldn’t reciprocate. I’ll tell him “Just know that you can’t go with an uptight attitude. If you are going to walk in there thinking that no one better touch your woman, or you for that matter, than you might as well stay home.”
Yeah let’s see how well that goes *eyeroll*
lol at this^^
i stopped going to strip clubs when i couldn’t tell the difference between them and starbucks…….
lol, why pay for the striptease when you can get it for free right?
It looks like Im the odd one out here.
My honey and I have been together for years, our relationship doesn’t need “spicing up” but we go the strip club with our couple friends every once in a while.
AND I’ve bought him a lap dance before too.
Wow. We’re supposed to go to strip clubs, learn about sports and watch with him, be awesome in the kitchen, and do what the porn stars do in the bedroom. You know catering to your man. How many men are willing to do something girly? All I ever hear nowadays is that women need to be more open minded about their men and sex. Women’s magazines are full of this kind of advice. Are men’s magazines telling them to be more open minded? I mean most men complain about having to watch chick flicks.
I for one just don’t want the man in my life going to a strip club. Is that too much to ask? He could have his magazines or watch porn (hidden away please), but a real woman only feet away is a bit much for me. Putting a pole up in the bedroom and learning some moves is completely different from going to a strip club. At least he would be looking at me.