Comments on: Video Explores 25 Habits All Women Should Have – Do You Agree?

By: jraq

jraq — Tue, 26 Jun 2012 18:14:42 +0000

Love this woman !
:)

By: Keiko

Keiko — Tue, 26 Jun 2012 01:00:06 +0000

PEOPLE SHOULD SMILE BECAUSE THEY GENUINELY FEEL GOOD. NOT SMILE BECAUSE THEY ARE TRYING TO FAKE THAT THEY FEEL GOOD OR MAKE OTHER PEOPLE COMFORTABLE.

By: Dionne

Dionne — Mon, 25 Jun 2012 19:53:15 +0000

Smiling or just a pleasant look is a way to attract people and things to you. I’m not talking about men going around and telling you to smile. I’m talking about just being present and aware of your person. Have you ever walked around and seen people with the most disgusted look on their face like they’re mad at the world, but in reality they’re just fine? I have and I have to “fix my face,” sometimes. Not because I’m trying to please anyone, but I just don’t want to look like that person that’s mad at everything and everybody, especially when I’m not.

It doesn’t cost anything to smile, but in reality walking around with a big frown on your face and mean mugging people does nothing to help you.

By: NTG

NTG — Mon, 25 Jun 2012 18:27:16 +0000

What’s a “screwball effect”?

By: Pseudonym

Pseudonym — Mon, 25 Jun 2012 08:26:51 +0000

yES!!!!

And she totally contradicted herself with #3.
Instead of “yapping, yapping, yapping” on this video, she should have listened to someone.

By: Let's not impose ourselves on others.........

Let's not impose ourselves on others......... — Sun, 24 Jun 2012 23:48:26 +0000

I agree with Keiko. You dont know what the person is going through that you are telling to smile. What if I was just fired? What if there was a death in the family? Would the person telling you to smile know that? Probably not. So why come along and tell someone that may be in a bad mood for good reason to smile as if that will just make there problems disappear. Its really an imposition and intrusive. I cant think of one time that I have heard that where it has lightened my mood or made me feel better. That may be the intent in some cases but it just causes resentment and usually backfires. In some cases it may make the person feel worse. And is that what you really wanted by telling the person to smile?

By: Laina

Laina — Sun, 24 Jun 2012 17:53:45 +0000

I think she makes some valid points although I do not agree with the last comment. There is something to be said about listening. There are some people that just talk too much. Generally, they are talking about themselves. At a certain point, they just need to stop. There is not that much talking in the world. I like the part about chosing your attitude. It is a skill to maintain a good attitude and not let the actions of others impact how you feel. As far as personal hygiene, I agree with everything she said. I truly dislike crowded public bathrooms where I have to use the toilet right after someone else. I do everything possible to avoid that situation. I have never understood why some women do not realize they have an odor. I know the habits are for women but men need to realize they need to shower on a regular basis also.

By: Keiko

Keiko — Sun, 24 Jun 2012 16:26:14 +0000

For some people, it takes a lot more for them to smile. And as I said already, nobody is walking around telling men to smile.

By: smiling....

smiling.... — Sun, 24 Jun 2012 15:45:43 +0000

Smiling and choosing to be positive is a great one. No matter who it comes from and its intention…I think its great advice. Smiling is a wonderful thing. Even if you’re not in a good mood it makes you feel better (studies have been done on this) and it can help brighten up someone elses day. You shouldn’t have to smile because you feel forced to, but because you want to. Being more positive is something that can only benefit you.

I really think that when we refuse to do things that can only bring more positivity to our lives because of society’s double standards, thats when we really allow those double standards to be harmful. I don’t really care if its true that men or other women can get away with not smiling. I smile because I want to. Just do you and smile away… :)

By: minna k.

minna k. — Sun, 24 Jun 2012 12:52:57 +0000

She mentions this jewel in a later installment that I bothered to watch.