Comments on: You’re Dead to Me – What Happens When Friends Break Up?

By: Isis

Isis — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 22:59:13 +0000

Thanks Chrissy I will do that

By: Chrissy

Chrissy — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 22:51:05 +0000

Im not the original comment poster but if you all are interested you could go to google and type in

‘karma friendships’ or ‘karmic debt’

But if you all are not the type to believe in stuff like astrology or other things then it might not interest you

By: Melancholy Soul

Melancholy Soul — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 22:40:52 +0000

I was wondering what that meant too.

By: Isis

Isis — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 22:34:26 +0000

Can u explain what u mean by you have both resolved ur karma in this lifetime?

By: Melacnholy Soul

Melacnholy Soul — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 18:29:26 +0000

“I am generally pretty reasonable and easy to get along with, so if we have beef, it is for good reason. ”

Same here for me.

By: RJ

RJ — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 17:52:07 +0000

I don’t have time to play games. Three strikes and you are out. And when I am done, I am done. I will not call, text, email, tweet, facebook, tumblr, pinterest or send a pigeon your way again. I am generally pretty reasonable and easy to get along with, so if we have beef, it is for good reason.

The one thing that I can’t stand is frenemies. That sh*t gets on my nerves. And the relationships that I have that fail are always frenemie relationships.

By: Melacnholy Soul

Melacnholy Soul — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 16:59:52 +0000

That is not correct. I didn’t mean within a few months I contacted her. I meant that over a few months time period I sent her different messages. She stated she was going through something that day I texted her. I never asked her what because I know how she can be about revealing certain things. Most times, we conversed through messages on Facebook because I don’t like talking on the phone. I sent her a message on Facebook, but she never responded BUT I could see her writing on other people’s Facebook walls or commenting on pictures. I sent her two other messages, just general conversation, but she never responded to those either.

It is very presumptuous for you to believe that she ‘didn’t lose someone that real’.

By: Anon

Anon — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 15:05:17 +0000

You know, she DID tell you that she was going through some things. She was upfront about her issues. And within a few months you tried to contact her? Over Facebook? She didn’t lose someone that real.

By: mamareese

mamareese — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 13:59:03 +0000

I love my BFFs BUT I do know that life will go on with or without them. I would be hurt but this would not stop my world…….

By: lostluv224

lostluv224 — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 13:22:50 +0000

I recently just let 3 of my college girlfriends (more like sisters) go. It was hard but when people are just stuck in childish ways and it starts to reflect on you (it was whatever in college but we’re grown now) its best to just walk away.

I love them and i know in my heart of hearts that if they REALLY needed me I’d be there, but other than that I keep my distance.

By: Zoya

Zoya — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 05:58:37 +0000

I’m in the process of letting a friend go at the moment. After much contemplation and discussing my situation with several loved ones, I’ve finally realized that it’s time to cut this friend loose.

This friend is simply too negative, jealous and insecure for me to deal with anymore. I’ve been her friend for years simply because I’ve been too afraid to let her go (because I didn’t want to add to her long list of problems). I have finally come to terms with the fact that it is alright to let someone who isn’t contributing anything positive to your life go. I don’t want to continue to be someone’s friend just because I feel bad for them.

By: Arcy

Arcy — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 05:30:25 +0000

Just broke up with one of my friends after we had a discussion that hurt me so badly that it made me question why I would even associate with someone that would say and act the way he did. He text messaged me a week ago and told me he was back living in the US, and that he wanted the chance to apologize for the way he left things, and by things I think he meant the way he left ME sobbing on my bed. I told him there was no need to apologize, because I reconciled everything on my own. I also told him NO, we can’t be friends, but maybe (and that is a HUGE maybe) sometime in the very distant future we can develop a mature rapport minus all the crazy, i.e. when or if he grows the hell up and realizes that being passive aggressive liar is not the business.

By: Velma

Velma — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 01:41:28 +0000

Friendships are meant to last….as long as they are suppose to. What that means is:
A friendship could last 2 months, 2 years or 20 years. When it’s run it’s course, you’ve both have resolved your karma in this lifetime, so move on.

By: Tash

Tash — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 01:37:26 +0000

Yep had it happen to me. Cannot figure out why, even after I approached this friend. Prayed about it and left it in the hand’s of God. It hurt but it happened.

By: Melancholy Soul

Melancholy Soul — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 23:03:50 +0000

Yes.

I ended a friendship with a woman who I was friends with for seven years after she started ignoring me on Facebook. At the time, I had just lost my job and I wanted to tell her about it. I texted her to see if I could come over and she said that she was going through something. I left it at that and never asked her what she was going through. Within a few months time period, I sent her general messages on Facebook and she never responded but I could see her writing on other people’s Facebook wall. I don’t know why she ignored me, but she did and eventually I just said, “cluck it, I have no time for this foolishness” so I eventually ended up deleting her from Facebook and never talking to her ever again. It has been over a year since that happened. Oh well.

By: Melancholy Soul

Melancholy Soul — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 21:59:19 +0000

Yes.

I ended a friendship with a woman who I was friends with for seven years after she started ignoring me on Facebook. At the time, I had just lost my job and I wanted to tell her about it. I texted her to see if I could come over and she said that she was going through something. I left it at that and never asked her what she was going through. Within a few months time period, I sent her general messages on Facebook and she never responded but I could see her writing on other people’s Facebook wall. I don’t know why she ignored me, but she did and eventually I just said, “Fluck it, I have no time for this foolishness” so I eventually ended up deleting her from Facebook and never talking to her ever again. It has been over a year since that happened. Oh well.

By: Melancholy Soul

Melancholy Soul — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 21:54:59 +0000

Yes.

I ended a friendship with a woman who I was friends with for seven years after she started ignoring me on Facebook. At the time, I had just lost my job and I wanted to tell her about it. I texted her to see if I could come over and she said that she was going through something. I left it at that and never asked her what she was going through. Within a few months time period, I sent her general messages on Facebook and she never responded but I could see her writing on other people’s Facebook wall. I don’t know why she ignored me, but she did and eventually I just said, “Fuck it, I have no time for this foolishness” so I eventually ended up deleting her from Facebook and never talking to her ever again. It has been over a year since that happened. Oh well.

By: Dalili

Dalili — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 20:00:01 +0000

I count the demise of my greatest and dearest childhood friendships as one of the toughest things I ever had to endure. After a season of trying to mend fences, I realized people do outgrow each other and things can sometimes fall apart all on their own. But my heart healed, my brain adjusted and I moved on; it’s the circle of life. I often think of her and smile and wish her the very best, even from a distance.

By: Marisa

Marisa — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 19:51:23 +0000

I’ve had some friendships end its part of life not every relationship we have will stand the test of time. What I dont have is that Jen/Evilyn mess when I fall out thats it your deleted number,email,home address and thats it I cut it off at the knees. There will be no reshashing whose fault hitting and bottle tossing and table jumping. When I’m finished I’m finished, that person is erased I dont see you and you dont see me I go about my business and you go about yours. Yeah its sad and unfortunate but those are the breaks called life

By: Candy 1

Candy 1 — Tue, 19 Jun 2012 19:24:18 +0000

I’m going through what I believe is a break up with a very close, long-time friend (16 years to be exact). I feel like she tried to pit me and my husband against each other (long story), and they also had a huge argument. We tried calling one another, but lately it has been less and less. I was trying to forgive/forget, but last week, she decided to drudge up the past and now I am starting to feel like it is time to just let the relationship slowly fade. I don’t know how to completely break it off, and maybe I don’t want to. Since we have been friends for so long, maybe I just want to let it go from close friends (well it hasn’t been that way in a few months) to “friends” who just call each other on holidays/birthdays.