Men don’t spend as much time fixing up women though. They search for perfection. They feel they deserve someone already put together even when they are lacking. Only dudes that spend time fixing up women are the ones that want someone they can control and be a captain save em with
I’m so appreciative of someone breaking this myth to peices. The idea of the fixer upper is a dangerous one. More times than not its a crapshoot. Codependency is real and its a very unhealthy relationship pattern. Accountability has to come into play eventually. You should be the same type of person you want to attract. Don’t let anyone convince you to lower your standard I’d you know what you deserve and what your willing to give. Me and woman should learn to know their worth and stop settling for less than they’re worth just so they can say they have somebody.
Men don’t spend as much time fixing up women though. They search for perfection. They feel they deserve someone already put together even when they are lacking. Only dudes that spend time fixing up women are the ones that want someone they can control and be a captain save em with
I’m so appreciative of someone breaking this myth to peices. The idea of the fixer upper is a dangerous one. More times than not its a crapshoot. Codependency is real and its a very unhealthy relationship pattern. Accountability has to come into play eventually. You should be the same type of person you want to attract. Don’t let anyone convince you to lower your standard I’d you know what you deserve and what your willing to give. Me and woman should learn to know their worth and stop settling for less than they’re worth just so they can say they have somebody.
Bravo Danielle bravo. Its’ about all compatility, being well matched and able to suffer one another’s less than desirable traits.