If you got students loans or any type of debts before getting married than you should not expect me to help you pay for them if we get married. Actually, I refuse to marry anyone that has unpaid debts. You want to be responsible than pay your debts FIRTS before thinking about getting married and having children. Once the kids arrive, we all know where the money will be going. If I was able to go to school debt free why you could not have done the same.
I have a friend in that situation, she married a man that went to medical school to become a doctor. He works as a physician assistant and makes good money. My friend is complaining all the tme that she is poorer today than when she was single. Basically whatever money she has goes into paying her husband’s debts. It puts too much stress on someone else that has been playing by the rules and remaining debts free. How selfish is that to expect them to help you pay your loans no matter what she thinks, she has to pay.
If you got students loans or any type of debts before getting married than you should not expect me to help you pay for them if we get married. Actually, I refuse to marry anyone that has unpaid debts. You want to be responsible than pay your debts FIRTS before thinking about getting married and having children. Once the kids arrive, we all know where the money will be going. If I was able to go to school debt free why you could not have done the same.
I have a friend in that situation, she married a man that went to medical school to become a doctor. He works as a physician assistant and makes good money. My friend is complaining all the tme that she is poorer today than when she was single. Basically whatever money she has goes into paying her husband’s debts. It puts too much stress on someone else that has been playing by the rules and remaining debts free. How selfish is that to expect them to help you pay your loans no matter what she thinks, she has to pay.