I think every woman should look back at her life and know what it feels like to be totally d*ckmatized. It’s called feeling like a woman and it feels so good!
Of course ecstasy is a drug and a high that you will eventually have to come down from (feeling this way can never sustain itself long term) but every woman deserves to feel that. We are taught to play our cards right and find the (Re: Mr. Safe and Stable) guy who can be a provider but what we often sacrifice in this quest is SEXUAL CHEMISTRY and PASSION. Often the challenge that comes with this level of intense connection is that dude is almost always Mr. Wrong. Outside of the bedroom the relationship is shit.
I’m a married woman and although I love the mess out of my husband I’ll never forget the man I had true sexual chemistry with. No woman does. Why do you think Mommy Porn books like “Fifty Shades of Grey” fuel book clubs and fly of shelves?
I don’t think there’s a woman alive who doesn’t desire the experience of surrendering, being dominated in the bedroom or simply having her back blown out till she’s in a state of bliss. This is especially true for the black woman cause we’re always in strong independent “I take care of everyone”mode; which honestly isn’t a natural state for a woman to always be in. Sometimes that mode toughens you up too much and you lose sight of your femininity.
Good D will bring all that femininity to the surface and will turn your black & white world into technicolor.
As for “Love and Hip-Hop” what Stevie J is doing is textbook narcissistic abuse on two woman who have different shades of low self-esteem. With those stupid contorted faces he’s enjoying the triangulation attention of the Mimi and Joseline sandwich.
Unfortunately for women in these situations you’re blinders are on and you don’t get up from the table until you’re full.
lol as a man, what can I say, our tool is a powerful one. But no on a serious note, I’ll add my two cents from the guys perspective. Now I’ll be honest. I’m pretty sure that the jerks like our friend from VH1, probably do put it down in the bedroom. I thinks its in their nature. Now the nice guy, well, although he is stable and secure, he doesn’t necessarily pack enough bedroom punch from what the ladies say. I mean I can understand. Women deserve to be satisfied as well in the bedroom. Men have this thing I think where its all about me, me, me in the bedroom. We get our nut off while the woman gets nothing. No no no. Thats not how its supposed to be. If women want to be satisfied then hey ,I think, if their on that level of being a party gal, then they have a right to find a guy who can put it down. We men all seem to want the woman with the big boobs and big ol ghetto booty but seem to get made when a woman states she wants to be satisfied with a man who may have a few extra inches to spare. To me that seems to be a good trade off lol. So yeah most young girls will get dickmatized real quick by a guy like Stevie J. The nice guys however might not be putting it down in the sex department. Uh oh. Don’t get me wrong, thats sad that a woman might say f you if your sex game aint tight but thats how it is unfortunately. Thing is though, I think all those fellows need to do is, at least when their in the bedroom, is to become their natural state: A powerful male animal who is about to give the female what she wants!
See, in this society, being a gentleman is cool. It really is. Shows you got some class. But in the bedroom, thats gotta go out the window. BE A MAN DAMMIT!!! DOMINATE YOUR WOMAN!!! Me, I’m a nice guy and I’m doing okay in life so far, I’m a big guy, and I’m a gentleman. Some people say I’m a gentle giant, but piss me off and I’ll tear your head off. Same thing in the bedroom, except I’m not tearing off heads lol. I learned in the bedroom, you gotta let your natural aggresive male instincts take over. I’m serious. Let her have it! That way when a group of women might be talking about how they’re thug boyfriends are the only ones who can put it down, then your lady can be the one out the group and say, hey my man ain’t no thug, but a gentleman. But in the bedroom, that guys a beast!
So yeah when it comes down to it, a woman does want a man who can let her have it in the bedroom. Lets keep that fact real. However when a woman does decide she wants some sex from a good guy instead of some narcissistic thug or some other asshole, then fellas I say come with it! Stop being a punk. Let the nice guy routine go while your in the bedroom or you’ll be the husband Bump Mediocraty describes: I’m a married woman and although I love the mess out of my husband I’ll never forget the man I had true sexual chemistry with. No woman does. Why do you think Mommy Porn books like “Fifty Shades of Grey” fuel book clubs and fly of shelves?
I think every woman should look back at her life and know what it feels like to be totally d*ckmatized. It’s called feeling like a woman and it feels so good!
Of course ecstasy is a drug and a high that you will eventually have to come down from (feeling this way can never sustain itself long term) but every woman deserves to feel that. We are taught to play our cards right and find the (Re: Mr. Safe and Stable) guy who can be a provider but what we often sacrifice in this quest is SEXUAL CHEMISTRY and PASSION. Often the challenge that comes with this level of intense connection is that dude is almost always Mr. Wrong. Outside of the bedroom the relationship is shit.
I’m a married woman and although I love the mess out of my husband I’ll never forget the man I had true sexual chemistry with. No woman does. Why do you think Mommy Porn books like “Fifty Shades of Grey” fuel book clubs and fly of shelves?
I don’t think there’s a woman alive who doesn’t desire the experience of surrendering, being dominated in the bedroom or simply having her back blown out till she’s in a state of bliss. This is especially true for the black woman cause we’re always in strong independent “I take care of everyone”mode; which honestly isn’t a natural state for a woman to always be in. Sometimes that mode toughens you up too much and you lose sight of your femininity.
Good D will bring all that femininity to the surface and will turn your black & white world into technicolor.
As for “Love and Hip-Hop” what Stevie J is doing is textbook narcissistic abuse on two woman who have different shades of low self-esteem. With those stupid contorted faces he’s enjoying the triangulation attention of the Mimi and Joseline sandwich.
Unfortunately for women in these situations you’re blinders are on and you don’t get up from the table until you’re full.
lol as a man, what can I say, our tool is a powerful one. But no on a serious note, I’ll add my two cents from the guys perspective. Now I’ll be honest. I’m pretty sure that the jerks like our friend from VH1, probably do put it down in the bedroom. I thinks its in their nature. Now the nice guy, well, although he is stable and secure, he doesn’t necessarily pack enough bedroom punch from what the ladies say. I mean I can understand. Women deserve to be satisfied as well in the bedroom. Men have this thing I think where its all about me, me, me in the bedroom. We get our nut off while the woman gets nothing. No no no. Thats not how its supposed to be. If women want to be satisfied then hey ,I think, if their on that level of being a party gal, then they have a right to find a guy who can put it down. We men all seem to want the woman with the big boobs and big ol ghetto booty but seem to get made when a woman states she wants to be satisfied with a man who may have a few extra inches to spare. To me that seems to be a good trade off lol. So yeah most young girls will get dickmatized real quick by a guy like Stevie J. The nice guys however might not be putting it down in the sex department. Uh oh. Don’t get me wrong, thats sad that a woman might say f you if your sex game aint tight but thats how it is unfortunately. Thing is though, I think all those fellows need to do is, at least when their in the bedroom, is to become their natural state: A powerful male animal who is about to give the female what she wants!
See, in this society, being a gentleman is cool. It really is. Shows you got some class. But in the bedroom, thats gotta go out the window. BE A MAN DAMMIT!!! DOMINATE YOUR WOMAN!!! Me, I’m a nice guy and I’m doing okay in life so far, I’m a big guy, and I’m a gentleman. Some people say I’m a gentle giant, but piss me off and I’ll tear your head off. Same thing in the bedroom, except I’m not tearing off heads lol. I learned in the bedroom, you gotta let your natural aggresive male instincts take over. I’m serious. Let her have it! That way when a group of women might be talking about how they’re thug boyfriends are the only ones who can put it down, then your lady can be the one out the group and say, hey my man ain’t no thug, but a gentleman. But in the bedroom, that guys a beast!
So yeah when it comes down to it, a woman does want a man who can let her have it in the bedroom. Lets keep that fact real. However when a woman does decide she wants some sex from a good guy instead of some narcissistic thug or some other asshole, then fellas I say come with it! Stop being a punk. Let the nice guy routine go while your in the bedroom or you’ll be the husband Bump Mediocraty describes: I’m a married woman and although I love the mess out of my husband I’ll never forget the man I had true sexual chemistry with. No woman does. Why do you think Mommy Porn books like “Fifty Shades of Grey” fuel book clubs and fly of shelves?
tell me why I find myself nodding and “mmm hmm”-ing the whole time I was reading this article? lol. whoo, flashback!