If your relationship can change just due to sex you should be looking deeper into the second question. Also are you letting him know what you want or hoping he’ll catch on?
No ill intent just saying.
That’s a good list! IMO, taking care of self and being selfish have been confused generation after generation. I believe this upbringing is how we end up not looking out for ourselves effectively as adults. It starts early with the concept of “sharing” and “being nice” or “being kind”. Not to say you shouldn’t, but many of us weren’t shown early on how to work ourselves into the equation, hence the struggles we have as adults.
Am I sexually satisfied by him, or should I find another?
I can’t tell you how tough this one is…..very very very tough.
If your relationship can change just due to sex you should be looking deeper into the second question. Also are you letting him know what you want or hoping he’ll catch on?
No ill intent just saying.
The questions themselves are so simple. Answering them is a major problem since you have to dig deep and be honest with yourself.
That’s a good list! IMO, taking care of self and being selfish have been confused generation after generation. I believe this upbringing is how we end up not looking out for ourselves effectively as adults. It starts early with the concept of “sharing” and “being nice” or “being kind”. Not to say you shouldn’t, but many of us weren’t shown early on how to work ourselves into the equation, hence the struggles we have as adults.