Whether Natural or Relaxer- What Are Your Must Have Hair Products?
September marks my 18th anniversary of having relaxer free hair. My natural hair journey wasn’t some journey to reclaim my natural texture or to be free of relaxers. My hair was making me hot. It was the summer of my freshman year in New Brunswick, NJ and 90+ degrees. I remember being on my roller blades skating around campus with sweat dripping down my face. I’m not sure what possessed me to stop, but I ended up in front of a barbershop on George Street. A few minutes later, I found myself negotiating with the barber who refused to cut my hair. He said most women would pay top dollar for the length I had. I told him to cut it off and sell it to them. I just wanted it off my head. Eventually he sat me down in his barber chair and I pointed to one his barber photos on the wall. About 20 minutes later, I walked out of the shop practically bald. Once I got back on campus and entered the dining hall, I walked to the section I occupied on a daily basis, utensils and mouths dropped. That cut was the first of two big chops I’ve had in the past 18 years.
Currently, my hair is cut into a neck length bob, an impulse move I made last Thanksgiving. It was my first hair cut in about 10 years. I flip-flop between wearing roller sets and a wash and go. Although I don’t use a relaxer, I do my own coloring. Experimenting with color is definitely one of my favorite hair pastimes. Right now, I have somewhat of a brown and blonde ombre color that I did with a box of Feria. Eventually, once Fall officially hits, I’m going back to a simple jet black.
My go-to hair products for the past couple of years have been pretty simple. Gone are the days of me being a product junkie. I can’t even begin to calculate how much money I used to spend on products. Every week there was something new I had to try. Nowadays, you couldn’t pay me to try some of these over priced products that are on the market. But I do have my favorites that are quite affordable.
Shampoo & Conditioners
Herbal Essence Hello Hydration- not only is it less than $3 a bottle, it leaves my hair soft and smells amazing. I use the conditioner as a co-wash, and shampoo about 2xs a month.
Giovanni Leave In- This stuff is a godsend! Whether I’m doing a wash & go, or a blow out/roller set. It’s lightweight and doesn’t weigh my hair down. It runs about $7, sometimes cheaper.
Extra Virgin Coconut Oil – I use EVCO to cook, on my skin, as my oil pulling agent and on my hair. Coconut Oil prices vary, depending on size and brand. Typically I don’t pay more than $10 and it lasts for months.
Ulta Hair Smoothing Styling Serum- Whenever I’m applying any type of heat to my hair, this is a must. It leaves my hair frizz free and smooth. It’s the Ulta equivalent to the expensive Chi version. Whereas the Chi version is $14+, this is only $8.
After years of trial and error, I tend to know what products work best on my hair. Occasionally I may switch up, or raid my sister’s bathroom, but for the past couple of years these are in constant rotation. I definitely don’t like breaking the bank when it comes to my hair, I’d rather spend money on shoes.
Clutchettes, what are your must have styling products?



Black Pro Sheen!! Ha ha just kidding:) I don’t even know for sure what that is, I heard it on Everybody Hates Chris once!
Anyhow, to get serious, just flatiron, pink lotion do it for me i guess. I don’t know why, but my hair NEVER gives me trouble. I have been looking for an excuse to chop the MOFO off but it just doesn’t. Ah well, I’ll have to draw from your playbook now…Of with her head(of annoying hair!!)
(In case anyone’s wondering I am bored and drinking wine at work;-)
You can drink at work…I so need your job!
haha!! what kind of wine are you indulging in? Probably I might want to join you
My favs are:
Motions are naturally you smoothing conditioner as my cowash
Shea Moisture Moisture Retention Shampoo
Beautiful Textures Tangle Taming Leave In
Olive Oil
Coconut Oil
Rosemary Oil
Shea Butter
ACV (Apple Cider Vinegar)
If I used heat I use Beyond Zone Pro Formula Turn Up The Heat protective spray it really gets your hair smooth and it really protects your hair too.
Recently stocked up on Nubian Heritage with BOGO.
It’s marketed to relaxed heads, so the products are light
and great for my fine, natural hair.
Cowash – Repair & Extend Conditioner
Moisturize – Heat Protect Leave-in
Seal – Evoo & Moringa Repair & Extend Hair Butter
Style – Heat Protect Keratin Wrap Mousse Honey & Black Seed
i’m a fine haired natural too and i just love Nubian Heratiage!
The price is right and the it’s a Black company. I don’t think there are better products out there :)