Spice It Up: 4 Ways To Turn The Heat Up In Your Relationship

by Danielle Pointdujour

Spice it UpEven the most blissful relationships can get a little stale.  After being with someone for months and years, things can become repetitive and quite frankly…boring!  It’s one of the most dangerous things that can happen to a relationship.  Boredom is a threat to your relationship because it’s often the root of other issues like infidelity and poor communication, issues that can cause some couples to break up.  So how can you cut boredom off at the pass and bring the heat back to your relationship?  Glad you asked!  Here are four ways to spice up a boring relationship and keep it hot!

Do New Things Together
From trying new restaurants, taking up a new hobby or traveling to a destination you have never been together, find ways to create new memories together.  You’ll be surprised how simply trying something new can help you learn new things about your partner and yourself.

Role Play
Set a date to meet at a bar or lounge and pretend to be strangers meeting for the first time.  Step out of your comfort zone and take on a whole new personality.  If you’re normally shy, channel a vixen, if you have naturally short hair, try wearing a wig with a longer style. The point is, create a fantasy for the both of you that will reawaken those senses and ignite the passion!

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