Who better to tell you about the man you’re with than the woman who was in your spot before you? Let’s see there’s his momma, his sister, his female cousin, or even his grandmother. But truly knowing a man is afforded from an intimate relationship.
Sure you can secretly pray for the day he leaves his phone unlocked and you “accidentally” stumble upon it…..or you can meet his Ex. In the age of Facebook it’s quite easy to reach out to his ex to drop her a line to inquire about the man your with. What!? Men have been doing it for longest…without any shame. I know quite a fe men who do a stat-check on any female they intend to make their girl. Besides, meeting the woman from his past can provide you with key insight into your relationship and possibly determine whether or not you’ll have a future together. I’m not saying go dig for dirt, I’m saying dig for understanding of the man you plan to give your time and energy to, maybe even spend the rest of your life with.
You know the saying “Love is blind.” But what if you could get a better vision of your partner by having a convo with his Ex, would you do it?