Over the weekend, President Obama took time out of addressing graduates at the celebrated, historically-black, all-male, private college, Morehouse, to remind about black men who make bad choices, chalking up failures to The Man and myriad other excuses.

“We know that too many young men in our community continue to make bad choices. Growing up, I made a few myself. And I have to confess, sometimes I wrote off my own failings as just another example of the world trying to keep a black man down. But one of the things you’ve learned over the last four years is that there’s no longer any room for excuses. I understand that there’s a common fraternity creed here at Morehouse: ‘excuses are tools of the incompetent, used to build bridges to nowhere and monuments of nothingness.’ We’ve got no time for excuses – not because the bitter legacies of slavery and segregation have vanished entirely; they haven’t. Not because racism and discrimination no longer exist; that’s still out there. It’s just that in today’s hyperconnected, hypercompetitive world, with a billion young people from China and India and Brazil entering the global workforce alongside you, nobody is going to give you anything you haven’t earned. And whatever hardships you may experience because of your race, they pale in comparison to the hardships previous generations endured – and overcame.”


But why do a roomful of young, black male college graduates, in particular, need this admonishment against excuse-making and expecting goodies they have not earned? Surely our Commander-In-chief would argue against conservative charges that real racism is dead and that his America is rife with lazy, irresponsible and demanding (black and brown) “takers” Why, then, do his speeches to black Americans so often warn against creeping pathology? (For instance, the 2008 Father’s Day speech that centered on shiftless and absent black sperm donors, instead of men who take the role of fatherhood seriously and are present and active in their children’s lives, whether or not they are part of a married couple.)

Of course, our President isn’t the only person seemingly subconsciously invested in the idea of inherent black dysfunction. In Michelle Obama’s speech to graduates at historically-black Bowie State University, the First Lady complained about young, black students with dreams of hip hop celebrity and urged parents not to accept failing schools. Ta-Nehisi Coates brilliantly addressed hand-wringing over hip hop aspirations in his piece, “How the Obama Administration Talks to Black America.” But it is also worth noting how offensive it is to suggest that the average black parent needs to be told to seek the best education for their children. And why lecture black college graduates, who have clearly demonstrated a belief in the power of education?

Hyperfocus on alleged black faults and how “we need to do better” is an outgrowth of the way black people have absorbed the race biases and stereotypes of the majority culture over centuries, combined with our desire to prove our own decency.

This isn’t just about the President and First Lady. I’ve sat in many a pew and auditorium seat, wedged between other black folk, wondering why a speech meant to inspire me instead sounds like an unspoken accusation or a caution against some sin I never dreamed of committing. There is something about a chance to speak to a room full of fellow African Americans that seems to make the siren song of respectability politics nigh irresistible. And amidst the “show ‘em you’re one of the good ones” boot-strapping oratory is always a clutch of disturbing implied messages: Mainly that WE are the ultimate problem; not centuries of systemic racism or classism or educational and prison systems rife with inequality. And that, deep down, we are who they say we are. That even the best and brightest of us are one good, finger-wagging speech away from every affront to mainstream Judeo-Christian, middle-class, patriarchal American values. (Of course, the only values that matter.)

This sort of thinking reveals itself in many ways. For example, the entire let’s-teach-black-women-how-to-be-marriageable industrial complex hinges on the idea of inherent black, female dysfunction. But this scolding of black America is even more problematic and damaging when conducted by our country’s leader–the person ultimately in charge of education, healthcare, housing and countless other systems. Black people don’t need Barack Obama to lecture us about why education is important for our children; we need to know what steps his administration is taking to ensure that our children have an equal shot at good, accessible education. And we don’t need a black president tacitly confirming the worst ideas of the African American community by using nearly every engagement with us to urge us to fix ourselves.

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    This president and his wife may single out young black men for scolding but please don’t believe they have respect for struggling black women. It is simply easier to attack black men because you will have the support of whites and most sisters. The Obamas are too smart to single out black teen moms, an alarmingly high STD rate or the fact that the fastest growing inmate population is young black women. Black women will not tolerate it and sisters represent his strongest base.

  • JuciyBee

    I wish Obama would’ve talked more about blacks actually owning businesses instead of giving money to others. I wish he would’ve talked more about black entrepreneurship in general, this message would be more beneficial to the black community.

  • Nope

    Agreed oow children and education are two big problems facing African Americans. They are two big problems that will always hold us back.

    These are problems that we can work on ourselves but people are waiting on the president to create policies to fix the state of black marriage and funding to fix black schools. Cosby and Obama call black people out on these things. They are community problems not problems that we need the government to solve. And if folks are going to sit and wait on these policies, they will be waiting (and still whining probably) for a long time.

  • What.


    I have no honest idea what that screed against educated black men had to do with the content of my comment.

    Also, before (or perhaps, after) anyone makes any assumptions: I’m not a black man. I’m a black woman who hates to see black men continually thrown under the bus and expected to bear the burdens of others’ shortcomings on the day we should be celebrating one of the highest achievements of young adulthood.

  • http://youngblackintelligent.com Danté

    So what should he have said instead? What message should he have given these people? Why is it that when a black person (especially one in a position of power) talks about how we need to “do better” or about personal responsibility, he (or she) is automatically branded as being some sort of sellout? What Obama said is 100% true.

    Of course racism still exists. But simply talking about how complex the deep-seated issues of racism affect our daily lives will not solve anything. It merely perpetuates America’s stereotype that black people see themselves as helpless victims. Should we not be looking for ways in which to do better for ourselves? Should we not speak on issues like personal responsibility for fear that we might forget our struggle?

    I’d much rather listen to Obama talk about not making excuses than listen to Jesse Jackson’s old played out ass. Come on black people, we need men like Obama to keep it real with us.

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