Ever since I wrote about Amy ‘Tiger Mom’ Chua’s new book The Triple Package, I’ve been feeling some type of way about the comments. While I expected readers to either agree or disagree with Chua’s premise that some cultures are just better and more successful than others, I didn’t anticipate the conversation would descend into a painful debate about Africans vs. African-Americans.
I am unabashedly pro-Black, and my pro-Blackness extends to the entire Diaspora. So when I see my people—from both sides of the Atlantic—hurling stereotypes, slurs, and jabs at each other like we ain’t even skinfolk, it makes me sad. And depressed. And downright disheartened.
I’ve been trying to figure out how to discuss the comments, our history as Black folks, and our shared pain (and triumph), but I just could not seem to find the words (nor did I want to read through pages of more divisive comments). Thankfully, friend and fellow writer Luvvie Ajayi did it for me.
After someone asked her to explain what the slur “akata” meant, Ajayi, who was born in Nigeria and immigrated to the U.S. when she was nine, schooled us all on the complicated relationship between Africans* and African-Americans—one tweet at a time.
Photo via Hayley Catt
*Note: We realize that Africa is not one country with a solitary culture or experience. However, the term ‘Africans’ is used in general to describe all people from the continent.