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QOTD: Is Dating Dead?

After years of being out of the dating game, I recently returned only to find out that things have apparently changed. A few months ago I met a man while I was out at a lounge. After dancing all night, he came up, chatted me up, and asked for my number. He was cute and…

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After Carnival, Are People Too Hard on Rihanna?

Yesterday photos of Rihanna at Carnival in Barbados hit the web, and as soon as I clicked on them I knew they’d cause a controversy. TheYBF  labeled the pictures as NSFW (not safe for work), even though they weren’t, and Distilled called her “Drunk ass Rihanna.” The photos showed RiRi, dressed in a bikini, fishnets,…

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Can Food Desert Victims Save Themselves?

From Frugivore – It’s popular for the upper to middle class of America to tout bootstrapping theories for social progress. Bill Cosby popularly says, “Come on people,” in response to hearing the ongoing plights of the poor. Other mobile classes cry, “you can do better,” as motivation for impoverished communities to save themselves. But many social…

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True Blood’s Lafayette slays gay stereotypes

From The Grio – While America’s fascination with all things vampire seems to be cooling off, the HBO seriesTrue Blood manages to stay fresh. Season four of the hit series is underway with one notable wrinkle central to the series being actor Nelsan Ellis’ portrayal of Lafayette Reynolds, a gay cook, prostitute and “blood” dealer. Ellis’ popularity on the…

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Iranian Woman Spares Assailant Who Blinded Her

In 2004, Ameneh Bahrami of Iraq declined the marriage proposal of Majid Movahedi. Instead of putting his pride aside and walking away, Movahedi doused her with acid, which blinded the 27-year-old and left her face horribly disfigured.  This weekend, Bahrami surprised television vieiwers as she chose not to go through with a 2009 ruling that…

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Morning Motivation: Digging For Joy

“You better choose how you shed your tears wisely. They soon run out.” My grandmother was not always the best in giving lovable admonitions but she was great at getting straight to the point. And while her advice was less than scientific, she did have a reason for dishing it out. See, God gave the…

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QOTD: How Soon Is Too Soon?

Over the weekend a friend and I were discussing our dating lives when she told me she’d recently met a man she thought could be a potential boo. While we sat across the table sipping our cocktails, she gushed on and on about how cute he was, the fact that he was ambitious, his belief…

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#ReasonsToBeatYourGirlfriend Is No Laughing Matter

I love Twitter. I dig the way it has transformed the way we connect, converse, and interact with others, but sometimes, Twitter is a breeding ground for utter foolishness. One prime example of such idiocy is the trending topic “ReasonsToBeatYourGirlfriend.” In the same sick vein that “ItIsntRapeIf” blew up, “ReasonsToBeatYourGirlfriend” caught on like wildfire and…

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Was Amy Winehouse Planning To Adopt?

Um. I definitely don’t want to become one of those people who agonizes over every detail of  celebrity’s life at the time of their passing, but I need some clarity on this one. Late singer Amy Winehouse was reportedly in the process of adopting a 10-year-old St. Lucian girl when she died last weekend, according to the child’s family….