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If You Have To Ask

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I love men. I love the anxiousness of the first few months of dating and I love the exact moment in the relationship when you realize you’re on the cusp of falling in love. But as amazing as male companionship is there’s nothing like female...

The Road Back to Me

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Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind. ~ Dodinsky And so it began: Monday morning: Hit the ringing alarm. Prepare breakfast for the household. Pack lunches. Play chauffeur. Arrive at the job to begin the 10-hour workday. Run errands. Volunteer. Cook dinner from...

The Bachelor: Will We Ever See a Bachelor or a Bachelorette Who is Not White?

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I’ve probably watched a cumulative total of three hours of ABC’s reality dating show “The Bachelor.” The 15th season with Bachelor Brad just finished strong, and the seventh season of spin-off, “The Bachelorette,” (the show that picks up popular castoffs from the curb and puts...

Add Worth & Stir

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“Jump up & down on one leg” “Bark like a dog” “Arf, arf” “Like a big dog” “Woof, woof” I can remember sitting in my aunt’s den as a pre-teen watching Coming to America laughing hysterically as Prince Akeem gave orders to this somewhat clueless...

Well, What Was She Wearing?

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Not too long ago, I tuned into a talk radio show. The topic was about a Manitoba judge who had let a man off the hook for rape because the victim was flirtatious and dressed provocatively, which supposedly lead the rapist to believe that sex...