On March 16th Ne-Yo’s wife, Crystal Renay, gave birth to Shaffer Smith Jr. Shortly thereafter, the new mom was posting up photos of her post baby bod but it was the photos of her out on the town with Eva Marcille that raised several eyebrows.
“Thanks for dragging me out the house last night ladies! Mommies need fun too!” she captioned the photo.
Folks weren’t too pleased with Crystal’s decision to party it up just one week after giving birth. Some even called her a thot for leaving her seven day old baby at home.
Ne-Yo’s defended his wife’s decision in an epic Instagram rant. “I don’t tell you how to juggle your baby mamas or baby daddys. I don’t judge the stupid things you’ve done (and in most cases are still doing) with your lives,” he wrote.
Read the entire essay below.
It’s true that mommies need fun too but is there a timeframe on when it’s ok to start having that fun? How long should a new mom wait before club hopping with her homegirls and do you think there was anything wrong with Crystal deciding to go?